My husband is straight yet has feminine tendencies?

[Anonymous]

I'm not sure if feminine tendencies is the best way to phrase it, but he shaves his legs, arms, and chest. He also wears really short shorts to work out in, or spandex pants if it's cold. I obviously have known for a long time about the shaving and never have minded. The short shorts and spandex pants have been more gradual, as when we used to work out his shorts were just above the knee, and they have slowly crept up to 4 to 6 inches above the knee. I asked him why he was wearing shorter shorts and he said he preferred them when working out. I'm actually okay with that too. Am I in the minority there girls? Would you be okay if your guy did this? Do any other guys prefer short shorts?

[AleDeEurope]

Hey, I shave my whole body (besides arms) and I'm not feminine at all. I hate it when women think this...
The spandex I don't see it that weird, I see many men that work out with those. I personally don't like it because it's uncomfortable to me, but maybe for him it isn't.
I wouldn't catalog a man as feminine just because of these two things (especially the shaving -_-). Does he show some kind of feminine attitude in his personality? Like the way he acts, talks?

I bet that if you say he looks feminine with those spandex he won't use them again xD

[Asker]

Like I said the shaving doesn't bother me he's done that as long as I've known him... more about the attire.

[HonestWhiteGuy]

Talk to him then, personally I've heard from girls "wow your arms are hairy" or stuff like that, like its a bad thing. I dont like shaving but I can see why guys do, girls are confusing!

[Weirdstuff]

Was he doing this before you started your relationship? For some sports, it is helpful to shave yourself as a man (eg swimming, cycling, ... ). The shorts may also be helpful in his sport. Is he still sexually attracted to you? If he is still attracted to you, then don't put too much thought in it. He might just have a poor fashion sense.

[Asker]

Definitely still attracted to me and sorry if anyone thought that was the question. Just was wondering what other girls might do if their guy did these things.

[Anonymous]

Is he a body builder? None of that sounds unusual for them...

[Asker]

No he's actually quite tall and skinny. He's very fit but not really muscled. I've think that I've got a pic that I post.

[Opinion Owner]

Or a runner for that matter? I'm not sure about shaving (that's def a body builder thing), but the short shorts and spandex are big with runners. If I heard just these details, I'd assume he was some kind of athlete, not girly.

[Cosmogirl22]

As far as the spandex in winter, i think most guys do that.

[Anonymous]

No. I want my husband to be a man. If I want a woman I would get a wife.

I don't.

That's weird. Your hubby is going through something.

[Cosmogirl22]

Nothing weird that she has mentioned. Spandex pants in the cold? Wow, then i guess most men are gay.

[UmOkWhatever]

Lol he might not be so straight after all ;).

[Maazin]

This is getting quite interesting !!