My bf says im not aggressive enough in bed?

I don't understand my bf. I feel like im aggressive in bed. I dont ask to give him head. I'm wet when I do. And his toes are always curled and he's basically shaking and levitating off the bed. I send him pics and sexy videos occasionally while he's at work.
He doesn't have to give me head because i dont personally like it. I tell him what I don't like sexually. When we have sex he says its like im not there. I moan, pull the bed sheets, hump him while he's humping me, ride him, squeeze him. He says im not vocal like a p*rnstar . I say **** or ****. Or **** me, *** inside me, give me that d*#*. I dont get it?
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He told me that he thinks that he can't please me and that I always have this look of disappointment. He wants me to basically cheer him on. He told me he feels like im bound to f*ck up because im young and bound to make mistakes. He is 28 im 22
My bf says im not aggressive enough in bed?
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