Is it a bad thing that your crush is a few months younger than you?

[Heymimihere98]

So I met my crush when we were both 15 and we became like best friends, then he asked when's my birthday and I said May 12th and he said damn you're older than me.. Is it bad that I'm a few months older than him?
(No rude comments)
Thanks

Updates

+1 y

When it was my birthday I turned 16 and he was still 15

[Iridescence]

No issues, Current girlfriend is 2 years older than me and I know people who have a 13 year age gap between them. If you make it to your 20's this will seem laughable

[22isTheKey]

God no, relax haha. There is nothing wrong with being a little older.

[Heymimihere98]

Ha ha okay I just want to make sure loll the dude looks like he's 17 but he's not lol

[princessmanna]

My friend is almost a year older than her boyfriend. My boyfriend is a year and two months older than me. I don't think it really matters :)

xx

[Broadway-Barbie]

Nah! Don't sweat it, love. A few months, even a year, it's no big deal, as long as you're happy, just go with the flow! :)

[Heymimihere98]

Okay thanks

[abundantlyrich]

What a stupid thing to say. Like you're suffering from accelerated aging...

[xCutesyLolitax]

No, not really :)
My crush/love is a few years older than me o:

[Klaatu51]

a few MONTHS? OMFG that's a HUGE difference... i can't believe it!!!

[meatballs21]

A few months? Puh-leeeeeeeze. Even a few years' difference won't matter soon.

[Ihav2fart]

At your age it isn't bad at all. When you get older in your mid 20s and up age is just a number

[babygirl41398]

No there's nothing wrong with it my fiance is a couple years older than me

[Anonymous]

No. You're still the same age. I don't get why months would make a difference.

[Anonymous]

No of course not! As long as you like him it doesn't matter :)

[Heymimihere98]

Thanks!

[ItzDizzY]

A few months is nothing! There's people in relationships who have a huge age gap.

[Maxemeister]

Girl, you're fifteen and it wouldn't be that weird if you dated a 13 year old. There's no problem.

[bubble_tea]

only if he's Asian.

[kangy]

Why?

[bubble_tea]

because in my experience the parents don't approve if the girl is older than the guy.

[bubble_tea]

@kangy

[bubble_tea]

and many Asian men themselves think they have to be older to preserve the traditional roles of being the provider.

[kangy]

Lol yes for too conservative and too traditional ones

[bubble_tea]

@kangy are there non-traditional non-conservative Asian men in Asia? I don't think I've ever met a couple where the guy is younger.. or maybe I only meet traditional people xD

[kangy]

My mum is older than my dad. There are such cases in asia. Not really a 100 percent no.
I think we can't be 100percent open or 100percent conservative

[bubble_tea]

@kangy sure, but we can say a society is generally traditional or generally progressive.

[Ihav2fart]

I don't mind a older gal

[bubble_tea]

@Ihav2fart as long as she's white, right? :P

[kangy]

See we have @Ihav2fart :)
Yes Asian countries in general is conservative.

[bubble_tea]

@kangy yeah, but he goes after white girls too ;) not exactly a parents pleaser we have here xD

[kangy]

@Ihav2fart loll I think pple here all thought u like white girls only.

Not all Asian men are so obedient

[Heymimihere98]

No my crush is white

[Ihav2fart]

Lmao! I go after whomever i find attractive, drives me crazy, and seems fun to be with.

[Ihav2fart]

To be fair, I've only officially dated Asian girls.

[bubble_tea]

Asker, then you have nothing to worry about :P

@Ihav2fart sounds like you're after hot bipolar girls xD

@kangy read his last comment. he only introduces Asian girls to his parents xD

[Ihav2fart]

LOL, I introduce no one to my parents unless they want me to.

[bubble_tea]

@Ihav2fart Nice! https://i.imgur.com/sgGKvp3.gif

[Ihav2fart]

Only if she was my everything would I let her do that. ;)