Should I warn his new girlfriend?

[Anonymous]

Hey i really need some input about this preferably from other girls but i dont mind any opinion is welcome! Basically my ex is dating this new girl i haven't been with him in over 4 months and no longer have feelings for him nor do i love him, i found out a couple of days ago that he has a new girlfriend and i found myself worried for her, he was very abusive with me and he's very manipulative, at first he seems charming and lovely but then after a few weeks or months he shows his true colours, he's not a nice guy at all and he really broke my heart when we ended and disclosed he had actually cheated on me twice despite my hate for him i actually dont want this new girl to go through what i did and i feel as a girl myself i should warn her about him send proof if she wants proof and then leave her to make her mind up on what she wants, i just can't help but feel if someone messaged me when i first dated him and told warned me about him and sent me proof of what they was saying i would of ran for the hills and wouldn't of gone through the heartbreak and stress which i did when i was with him, so girls if a stranger messaged you and warned you about the guy you are dating would you take any notice or would i just be wasting my time?

[Anonymous]

Almost the same thing happened to me. But the girl was a friend... I never told her anything about the guy she dated, I didn't feel like it was my right to tell her anything about him. I felt guilty of not telling her that he was not truthful in his feelings, but somehow she would've never believed me. And this girl too won't believe you... Just keep your distances from both of them and don't involve yourself with them. You might feel guilty, but trust me it's better to keep yourself out of it :)

[Anonymous]

It's most likely she will not believe you. If you really think she should know then I'd tell a friend of hers. Let her know you aren't being a bitch, you don't want him back but you think she should know. Go through a friend, it will be received better... If you REALLY feel you have to!

[kangy]

I don't think she would believe you tbh, she would feel you are trying to sow discord because you have yet to get over him (when you had already got over).
And she doesn't know you so all the more she won't find your words credible.

[Hawkeye6736]

I think you should at least try to warn her. You might not be believed, but people who are abusive should be known as dangerous and if you can try and help her before it starts, or even just give her a warning that it might happen is a good idea

[yaddayaddayadda02]

I think you mind your business in this one. Even though you say you have no feelings , that's not the truth, and you will come across as the bitter ex.

[Findingmyway]

I recommend staying out of it, even if you mean well it will not be viewed as such from either of them.

[Anonymous]

She might not believe you... And will say you're just making her jealous by saying that. Stay out of it.

[wolfhunter77]

I would tell her about the abuse. As far as him cheating you could tell her but she will likely think that won't happen to her.

[Virulent]

You should not.