How do I tell my girlfriend I don't feel appreciated?

[Anonymous]

I have been with my girlfriend for around 8 months now :3
and it's been going brilliantly, however the past 2 months have left me feeling rather low and not Appreciated in the slightest. .. I tried bringing it up.
but each time I try she cries and gets angry... so obviously I feel like a dick and leave it :/

I'm just a bit stuck on what to do

[Cloud91218]

If it's really something that bothers you don't leave it. She is wrong for being upset with you for voicing your feelings. If that's how you feel than that's how you feel and she should listen and stop being so over dramatic about it. If you talk to her and she does it again just keep going because she needs to hear it and you need to say it or otherwise some resentment for her might start to build up in you and that will just be worst. If you tell her and she still doesn't change I suggest you leave because you deserve someone that's as much considerate of your feelings as you are of hers.

[Asker]

That actually makes a lot of sense, thank you

[Cloud91218]

No problem glad I could help :)

[Flourish]

Get a new gf. She's not worth it if she can't rationally listen to your problems and try to comfort you. Most girls would do that for their boyfriends. So sorry you feel that way. Would you please take a look at my most recent question? Thanks!

[Anonymous]

So you're not allowed to say how you feel? Nice 👍
Imagine what she'll be like once you've been dating for a year or two lol. Good luck mate!

[Anonymous]

in what ways do you wanna feel appreciated?

[Asker]

Just in general, it feels like I'm in a relationship with an emotional sponge sometimes. .. takes it all but never gives

[Opinion Owner]

ask her how she feels about certain things. Some people are just not that emotional.

[Anonymous]

Who are you?

[Asker]

Why does it matter who I am