I crave touch, yet flinch every time someone comes near me?

[Anonymous]

Especially with my guy friends. I'm so frigid and physically distant. How to break out of this shell?

[Anonymous]

My dog's the same way. He wants attention, yet every time I try to get near him, he flinches. I think that he thinks I'm going to hit him... yet, I've never raised my hand to him, so he's nothing really to fear.

[tyber1]

Just if a guy backs off tell him that he wasn't bothering you, you just flinch sometimes.

[TheFangirl]

It is all up to you trusting people a little better. There is nothing you can really do, but slowly ease yourself into it. It is very hard to do, but eventually you'll probably get better. :)

[anicegirl]

Do you get a physical feeling down there?

[Asker]

Like horny? No haha. I think, like the girls below this pointed out, I have trust issues. Also I'm insecure about my body. But still. Like I can't even cuddle without feeling embarrassed about something.. But I don't know what!!