Is getting a back massage from another guy cheating? NOT A PROFESSIONAL?

[Anonymous]

Why? Why not?

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+1 y

NOT MY SITUATION

[Anonymous]

Depends how your partner sees it, cheating to me is doing anything that would be inappropriate in the presence of my partner. To be honest I can't see many women being happy with their boyfriends getting a massage off some random girl so it shouldn't be any different the other way round.

[Asker]

I don't know. it was from a tv show I was watching. the dude got so jealous when she told her friend about her back massage.

[Outofthegrey]

People have a really loose definition of cheating these days.

[Asker]

lol I saw it on a tv show. The dude got totally jealous cause his gf got a back massage from a guy friend and told a friend in front of him how nice it felt.

[MakaylaGrace]

It's not technically "cheating" but it is flirting with some major trouble. How would you like to see your boy massaging another girl's back? MAAAJOR flirtage going on! They're both thinking about physical things... NOT a good idea!

[Asker]

flirting? in the tv show the dude had a gf too. lol he just owed her a back massage.

[MakaylaGrace]

And since when did Hollywood have the greatest relationship standards? ;) Just think about how long the typical Hollywood modeled relationship lasts. haha Of COURSE the dude got jealous... he knew that the other guy was only thinking about one thing and that one thing WASN'T his girlfriend! LOL

[Asker]

wellllll in the show, he didn't seem to care for her (the friend). legit he gave it and walked away. lol it was funny cause later he got in trouble for doing it for free. XD

[MakaylaGrace]

Oh okay lol I don't know which show you're talking about. ;) That's only MY personal opinion. I'm not saying that it's right OR wrong. :D

[Asker]

Aight. Its called The Serious Seriouser.

[Bandit74]

if it's a nude back massage then yes

[Asker]

No clothes came off in the tv show so no.

[Bandit74]

then no but honestly if my girlfriend wanted a massage I'd be more than happy to give her one so I don't see why she'd need to get one from another guy.

But as long as no clothes came off and it was only a back/shoulder massage then I wouldn't see it as cheating

[Asker]

it looked like a back massage. I don't know. the dude was her friend and her back was hurting. kk

[Despondency]

That's a boundary you set with your partner.

[Asker]

it was from a tv show where the chick got a back massage and the dude got jellyyyy

[Despondency]

Sounds a bit too simple.

[Asker]

that wasn't the man plot of the episode. i just found it random.