Hey man gets a massage is it considered cheating?

[flipflopBD5]

My neighbor has some rough dealings at work just heavy stuff to lift had to move a lot of things. He went and got a massage his wife was mad that he's a cheating.

Yes

No

[OlderAndWiser]

Was it a legitimate massage or did he have a happy ending?

[flipflopBD5]

I never thought about that, I never asked. I think it was innocent.

[OlderAndWiser]

If he didn't do anything that he wouldn't have done if his wife was there watching, then there's no violation of her trust.

[trumpets310]

Not if it's a professional massage, although if he was intentionally hiding it, then it's bad. He should mention it to his wife but no it's not cheating. Getting a massage from a female friend would definitely be different though

[Aerissa_Jade]

Only if he gets a happy ended and I don't approve of it, but otherwise no. I've had massages from a man and he saw everything and I didn't consider that cheating as he was totally professional.

[KarinMcDonald]

As long as it's a genuine massage and not the other thing!

[Britchie]

It's not cheating, but if a man intends to go get touched by another woman he should discuss it with his partner first to make sure there is not a betrayal of trust.

[Anpu23]

A professional massage from a licenced therapist isn't cheating. One in a cheap massage parlor with a happy ending may very well be.

[mandyfire98]

Just a professional massage? It's definitely not cheating

[qwert1234]

If it's just a massage, who the fuck thinks of it as cheating?
Some low-self esteem person?

[HaveNoName]

As long as he can mention it to his spouse without hiding details without that creating a scene, it is not cheating.

[ArtemisSilver]

If it's the kind you can claim on insurance I think it's fine.

[jengeorge26]

I think that a good massage is therapeutic, right?

[joeldalton]

Not unless he goes to a rub and tug