Well, I know you want a females opinion, but I must say that it is cheating if her husband doesn't know about it and if her husband does know about it and if fine with another man putting his hands all over this wife's body and cuddling with her, then the marriage isn't as strong as you have suggested.
Plan and simple if she must go to any other man for massages, she should go and pay for them at a professional massage parlor. They do feet too.
She's taking advantage of you and of course you like it and she feels that there is nothing wrong with this? regardless of you guys having sex or not, the fondling and cuddling as a secret is dishonest to her husband and their marriage. It's cheating.
What if the husband went to an old girlfriend for massages and in turn was getting hand jobs from her? Would that little secret be ok with his wife?
I don't mean to go at you here man, I'm just pointing this more towards her.
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How would you feel if your were married and your wife was spending this kind of quality time with another man? Would you consider it cheating?
The simplest answer for whether something is cheating or not is to ask this: If you are doing something with someone outside of your relationship that you would NOT do in front of your significant other, then it's cheating. If your female "friend" would do all of that stuff in front of her hubby, then it's not cheating, but the fact that she wouldn't and that it's a secret means it's cheating.
wow ummm...idk dude. I was kinnddaaa with you until you said that she let you "fondle her breast". No married woman should let a "friend" do that to her. Licking, sucking, and "carressing" anything is crossing the line when your married, and that person isn't you significant other. Sorry *shrugs*
Clearly this is blessed cheating, and fun at that. I have no idea what she expects from you but don't be surprised if SHE makes a move on you. I'd stop the tickling, and definitely stay away from her breast if you want to stay out of trouble.
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