Do you find it odd and weird that a loving married couple ends their marriage over the loss of a child?

[Finchie40]

I know it’s an experience we can’t control, people die every day , so why do some couples decide to end their relationship or marriage over it? If they truly loved each other , wouldn’t they want to be there for each other through that devastating time? I know everyone grieves differently, why I feel grieving is pretty much a mental issue in most cases , I have witnessed people grieve in crazy ways including myself , so I’m sorry to sound harsh but I still find it odd that a happy couple will end their relationship over it , it’s like they are blaming each other for something out of their control , and to me that isn’t love , that is pure selfishness. When I am in a loving relationship with a girl , she is my top priority over everyone else , and when I lost loved ones , I was happy to have her by my side , but I witnessed people do the complete opposite and push their partner away , which to me seems like they truly didn’t love their partner to begin with , like they use that as an excuse for their selfish actions and behaviors and try to justify it over something that is out of their control. So if you are in a relationship with someone that pushes you away over a loss of a loved one, just know they truly don’t love you, so look at it as they are doing you a favor , because they do not love you. Just because you are hurting over a devastating experience, your partner is hurting as well , so stop making things all about yourself , because by you pushing them away , makes you a selfish asshole in my opinion , Yes everyone grieves differently , so seek therapy for it immediately especially , if you are pushing your loved one away because there is no excuse for your selfish actions and behaviors, you are just a selfish person that needs serious mental help sorry truth hurts doesn’t it

[Abbycado]

That would be odd. You’d think they’d stay together after that.

[Finchie40]

Yea I agree , but I have witnessed couples pushing the other one away like all of a sudden they no longer matter to them when the other is trying to be there for them , why I consider that person selfish person for doing that to their partner that is more than likely hurting as well. Why selfish people should not be in relationships with anyone , because they only care about themselves

[Abbycado]

If anything, I’d think I would want to have my partner in a time like that.

[browsingthroughthe]

You're a good man Finchie - always stand by yourself, as a proud man that you are and have become today, to-date (as in, to the Present ⏰) @Finchie40

[browsingthroughthe]

@Abbycado you are awesome also. Don't forget to enjoy tags 😋😈 enjoy your remaining months of summer 🌞🏝️ up there in ol America

[browsingthroughthe]

Before the Winter lol ☃️❄️

[MartinKlingac]

I don’t find it weird. Losing a child can create unimaginable grief, and people cope with that pain in very different ways. Sometimes the loss brings a couple closer, and sometimes the grief creates distance they simply can’t overcome.

[Cidknee]

No, not at all.