Guys, In love with my fuckbuddy... What do I do?

[Anonymous18]

I fell in love with my fuckbuddy of 8 months.. I always felt he was trying for 3 years, he's my cousin's best friend, and when i finally agreed it was strictly sex and the first two times i wasn't very nice because i didn't want to fall in love. His behavior changed in my eyes after that and we agreed to just sex. Now I fell in love and he hasn't and says I'm not his type and it would never work out. We are eacht other's first ever fuckbuddies and he even told me thag in the first 5 months he didn't have sex with anyone else because we were at it every weekend... I just find it very hard to cope with because we are exactly the same, even his friends say so... he says we have the best sex but that's it... What do I do? Hard for me to let this go..

[OlderAndWiser]

friends with benefits is a stupid concept that young people use to try to convince themselves that you can have a relationship without having feelings. . . because feelings are bad and should be avoided at all costs. Invariably, at least one of the two participants falls in love and gets hurt. . . so, once again, that has happened, and it is no surprise.

You can't make this guy love you. If you are in love and he isn't, the best thing to do is to break up; otherwise, you are just prolonging your hurt. Be honest with yourself about your feelings and how you got yourself into this mess so that you don't repeat your mistake. We all make mistakes, so just learn your lessons and move on.

[Anonymous]

This is so typical. Women fall in love with a guy she planned on being just a FB with... the problem is that guys don't get emotionally attached when they have sex. Even though a lot of females go into these things with the idea he will eventually get feelings for her, a guy will seldom grow feeling for a girl he can fuck without commitment. Why by the cow when the milk is free.

You pretty much invalidated yourself by being a girl who would have sex without any commitment. Any possible respect or possibility for him to care about you for anything more than sex has gone out the window. You need to cut ties and move on.

[Lithium65]

Sounds like the perfect time to use your old friend Mr. Ultimátum.
Be with you in a relationship... Or he's cut off

Your shouldn't want someone who doesn't want you!
And you can't convince someone why you should be together...
Forcing things only makes things worse in the end.
Hug!

[Anonymous]

Stop having sex with him and cut him out of your life. It's that or get into a relationship (but it doesn't sound like that is going to happen).

[Anonymous]

dont ruin it, keep things like they are. sex without love is better then no sex and no love

[Anonymous]

smart guy. i wouldn't date a "fuckbuddy either". fuckbuddy=living fleshlight.