Uhm, I'm guessing because he does NOT trust you? Although I wouldn't assume he's expecting to find something on your messenger, he may be checking it in the hope of NOT finding anything, to get reassurance that his trust in you is justified. What exactly happened that caused his trust issues? Can you find other ways to show him he can trust you? Because seriously, he should stay of your phone. If a girl did that...
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His trust issues may not stem from you. But what he has gone through in the past.
Talk to him about what you have observed.
In order to feel safe in his own relationship, he shouldn't have to monitor you.
He needs to learn to have trust in you without feeling the need to do those things.
This is something that will require work and need some time.
I had a boyfriend that'd go into my emails and check them : I think he was really hurt in the past or all throughout his life he found trusting difficult. Sounds like he has insecurities , I'm not sure why, but I'd defiantly bring it up to him, and see what he has to say. Good luck!
Well let him see your phone and take all the time he needs to get over his trust issues as you are one to make him lose trust in you!!! ( i saw your comment and how you lied to him about the snapchats)
Let him see all he wants... and just ignore why he looks through you messenger...
When he will get bored with finding nothing inappropriate in your messenger... He will stop looking automatically...
He may be worried about losing you, but it's not necessarily distrust in you, but perhaps he's worried about other guys messaging you and not about you heading back.
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Either he is trying to stay one step ahead of you incase you're seeing other guys, or (more likely) he is trying to get some insight into yourself
He lied. he does not trust you. When a person lies it means they will cheat. You have been warned.
HOW ABOUT TELLING HIM TO KEEP HIS FUCING HANDS OFF YOUR PHONE! who does that stupid childish shi...
That shows he doesn't trust you, there is not point in being in a relationship without trust
guess he has trust issues then...
I think those trust issues are unresolved.
he doesn't trust you.
You should balk!
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