Should I be worried if my boyfriend turned off his active status on Facebook?

[Anonymous]

He’s obviously the first person who shows up on my Messenger when active, so this morning, I saw he was active. A little later, I was trying to search a friend I hadn’t messaged in forever and her and my boyfriend happen to have the name so I accidentally clicked on his icon. I noticed that nothing showed up like the “active 20 minutes ago” or whatever, and I thought it was weird because he was just active not that long ago. I clicked on his icon again later in the day and it still didn’t say anything. I’ve been cheated on before and this makes me paranoid because my ex cheated on me through the secret messages on Facebook. Should I be worried?

[Changiis07]

No you shouldn't but the fact that you have been cheated before in other relationship means you might just jeopardize the ones you have now. It's good to have your guard up but you can't be paranoid all the time and you shouldn't be stalking to see when he is active or not, that is going to make things worse for you really. It's going to make it worse

[theocray19]

Yes, especially because you are carrying the hurt from a previous relationship. You need time to heal and let go of the past. If not you will project your insecurities and he will cheat. Cause no one likes to deal w insecurities

[jahaims]

It will so not active when you aren't active. That doesn't mean he shut it off

[spartan55]

Good lord... really?