Is my boyfriend cheating on me with a girl on snapchat?

[Anonymous]

me and my boyfriend got into a fight a couple days ago and it was pretty bad we almost broke up but we worked it out, but yesterday i looked at his snapchat and he's been snapchatting a girl.. i asked him about it and he told me that an hour after our fight she followed him on instagram and she asked for his snapchat which i think he shouldn't have gave it to her but anyways he said they went to school together and they were just caughting up but on his bestfriends her name was above mine... im still upset about this, and today i followed her on instagram and she told him that i followed her and he asked why i needed to, and i said because i wanted to see what she looks like and then i said if she didn't want me to follow her she couldnt declined it not go to MY boyfriend and tell him. He said they are homies but how can you be when you just started talk a few days ago... if she goes to him about me following her what else does she go to him for? i just wanna know from a guy if i should be worried about it or if im being cheated on... i love this guy, and i just dont know what they say to eachother and i feel like something is going on with them... i dont want them talking but i told him that it would be a problem... someone please answer me... :(

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@klaatu51 no i dont know what they talk about.

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@Just1n123 no im not overreacting. i dont care that he has friends that are girls but how is it all the sudden he wants to tell me they are "homies" when the haven't talked since school and he's graduated.

[NovaLS]

First off I hate Snap chat and don't use it. My girlfriend does have one though and uses it with her roommates or when something funny happens but not often. She sometimes puts up ones of us but like I said she isn't way into. I know she snapchats some guys but I also know that it was partially because she didn't want to give the guy her phone number. I guess it comes down to how much you trust your boyfriend. If he has a history, or what not. I would tend to give him a pass since you guys were about to break up but now that you are back together it seems a little odd. I guess wait and see /:

[reigningblood45]

he's being very careful. he obviously added her on snap for a reason. snap is pictures and whats the point of wanting to see another girls body or face when he has yours to look at. he's most likely sending and receiving pictures that is gnna ruin your relationship. tell him to stop talking to her and respect you. if he says yes then he trulys loves you. no then he doesn't show you full commitment

[Asker]

no she followed him on instagram and she asked for his snapchat... and he gave it to her... i trust him, but because of my past relationships i just scared of it happening again... if i told him i didn't want them talking he'd get mad

[reigningblood45]

there's no reason to be snapping another girl. i have a girlfriend and all i wamma see is her face. there's no point of looking at other girls. if your guy sends her pics then there's obviously an attraction there.

[Asker]

they don't actually snapchat that i know of when i saw it it was them chatting on it but it didn't show the conversation...

[reigningblood45]

I wouldn't trust him cause snap doesn't save messages. just trust your gut and if the feelings are off then bring it to his attention..

[Asker]

i just told him how i felt about it and all i got was its my snapchat i'll do what i want. he said im gonna live my life and do what i please. i said i never said you can't live your life and i never said you can't do whatever you want on your own snapchat. i told him he can do whatever he wants I don't know but he better not be cheating on me or lyin to me. he said he isn't and he isn't doing anything and wouldn't do that. i always gonna feel how i do because one she didn't need to ask him for his snapchat when they were fine talking on instagram i know how girls work now a days im not stupid. i even told someone on here if i talk to him about it he would get mad and we'd fight and thats what happened. he wanted to tell him how i felt and so i did and he said i feel like i have to check in with you before i do something... like is he seriously because im a chill ass girlfriend and don't be going throu his shit or saying for anything. i let him do him.

[OlderAndWiser]

Yes, he is wanting to start something with this other girl and you need to call it quits with this guy. When you don't know whether to trust your partner. . . it's over.

[Klaatu51]

did he send any flirty messages? or heart emojis and stuff? <3

[Asker]

ok now that i look like dumb i know how to reply ok so actually no i dont know what they talk about..

[Klaatu51]

yeahhhh u did it!! :D

*high-5*

[Asker]

thank you thank you :D

[DaddyRollingStone]

Why do you care? Social media is completely brainless and the fact you're upset he sent a picture to a girl and followed her on instagram is pretty stupid. I am glad I never had any of these problems with the girls I dated.

[KidInk4]

Depends on what you consider to be "cheating"

by the way kind of hypocritical to go anonymous and then not allow them

[HereForTheDay]

yep. he is cheating... or trying to

[ClauseViter]

Ur kinda freaking out. Just take a deep breath.