I lied to my boyfriend about my age what do I do?

[Anonymous]

so I met him on kik and I was just messing around and I lied cuz I thought I would never talk to him again but in the end we kept talking and now we are dating and I really love him a lot. I'm 13 and he just turned 16 this March. I don't know what to do cuz thus is really eating me away and I don't want him to leave me for my age. He said he is really serious about our relationship and is even thinking about getting married and having kids when we get old enough. He says he wants to be able to support our family and i just dont want to give up that life with him because i was "too young" at the time. I get that i act way too mature for my age and i look 15 years old so i really dont know what to do. I really love him and I know that people say no ur too young to know this but I wouldn't see the problem when I was like 20 and he was 23 or 22 so I'm just really scared and I don't know how to tell him. And I'm sca red that if he finds out on his own from one of my friends that he will just dump me even tho he says he would never leave me. I have met him and he is just like what he says to me in texts. He even said we wouldn't do anything sexual because he wants to be mature and wait Untill we are ready for the full responsibility of it all. I also do know that he could get into trouble but it's long distance now because he moved and i don't know how he could bl get in trouble if we are just texting from thousands of miles away. He now lives in another state so... help

[Luvme66]

Just tell him the truth...

Start with "we need to talk about something!"

He will say "did I do anything wrong or something near to that."

You tell him "no.. its nothing you did, its my fault."

He will ask you what is it

You tell him that u are afraid to tell him becz he might not love you anymore

He will convince you that no matter what happens he will still love you (if he really loves you, if he is a faggot he won't reply anything)

And then you tell him

You should tell him this way becz in this way it might have a very less effect on your relationship

PS:- ADD SOME SAD EMOTICONS TOO

[Luvme66]

Trust me if you text in this way... your relationship will not be much affected.

Your call

[chuppachup]

well, you HAVE to tell him.
depending on your location, he could be put on the sex offender list indefinitely.
you could be ruining his life because you're too scared to tell him.

[Hippieswithchains]

Tell him. If he cares about you as much as you say he will be able to handle it. It will probably be weird, 13 and 16 is a lot. Your right when your older three years will be nothing but right now it's almost a fourth of your life. If you care about him as much as you say you will want him to live you for you, right? Tell him.

[Anonymous]

Tell him the truth. You are 13 & he is 16. He is high school & you are in middle school. This is a big deal. You need to address it immediately. Do you want him to find out from you or from someone else?

[Asker]

I am in Junior High by the way.

[Opinion Owner]

Isn't juinor high & middle school the same thing? Lol okay. Long story short. Tell him the truth.

[Asker]

Lol no not here its not but ya I get ur point ik I need to tell him but I don't know how.

[XNicholeMariex3]

He is going to be extremely pissed off. I don't see this going well. Better now than later.

[Kenzy-Yinn]

... You'll have to tell him somehow, being honest and telling him yourself if better than for him to find out... no lying...

[zombiebabe]

you SHOULD tell him about your real age! he deserves to know

[muspelhem_5]

Tell him what you told us. You explained it really well in detail. It's clear that you really care for him and are scared of losing him.

[Anonymous]

Tell him, it's better that you do it sooner rather then later.

[JimmyO]

If you don't tell him it will be worse