Just sit him down and come clean. Explain why you lied and that your sorry you did. Tell him you know it's stupid. Just be truthful about it and you'll be fine. He'll appreciate you that much more.
And if he flips out and leaves you or gets pissy, then you probably don't want to be with a guy like that in the first place
A one year difference would not be that big of a deal to me personally. He might end up more upset if you try to hide it though. So if you see yourself staying with him I think you should just tell him.
One year won't change anything, you are who you are and age is just a number. Honestly just tell him you felt really insecure about dating someone younger. The longer you drag it out the worse it will be, if he's a nice enough person he should understand we all have our insecurities and in the moment you made a mistake.
Just come clean. Let him know that you realize you messed up and the lie has been eating you up inside. Also let him know why you lied- that you felt uncomfortable and insecure and that led you astray. Hopefully he will understand and be forgiving.
Just tell him the truth.
You can even tell him exactly what you told us here, its pretty explanatory. It doesn't change who you are and what you guys feel for each other.
Wow I get myself I'm too that level of fucked all the time and It wasn't that you liked it a speaking without thinking right?
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If you were a 13 year old posing as a 17 or 18 year old, and believe me im glad you're not, i can't see a problem. it may cause some tension. But if you two have a really good intimacy relationship then all should be well.
You need to tell him as soon as you can. And ask for forgiveness. Exactly as you’ve stated here being nervous about dating a younger guy. If age wasn’t an issue initially I’m sure he’ll understand.
just tell him. explain that for some reason you felt compelled (insecure about the age difference or something) to lie about it. better do it sooner than later
shoulda just came out and corrected yourself. explain the situation to him. if he genuinely likes you it won't matter if your a year older than what you said.
Just let him know you made a mistake. Make it a funny joke you can both laugh at. My birthday is in a week and until 2 days ago i had totally forgotten. So its not that strange to get confused over it.
Tell him.. I bet you he'll laugh it off and say he loves you and doesn't care about stupid stuff like that but please don't lie again
This is trivial. Just tell him the truth. Next time, avoid white lies.
He isn't that much younger I will be 26 this year and my boyfriend will be 30.
I wouldn't mind if you were honest and just said what you said on here. But if I found out? Bye bye.
Kind of an awkward mistake to have made. Just set it right, it's probably no big deal to him. It's only one year anyway
Tell him the truth, and be prepared for him to accept it or not. I would certainly be annoyed.
Well, at least you didn't do the other... pretending to be of age
if he knew it why would it make you anxious? he will know that you are into him, because it is just white lie, but say him.
I wouldn't care if you were older than me. It's not by that much anyway.
Lol age is just a number and it means more experience in bed
That age difference is minor. He'll be fine.
Age? I don't think that really matters.
Make it seem like he forgot. He won't care
so your relationships based on a lie.. cool
Age is just a number
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