My girlfriend cried after phone sex?

[Anonymous]

We share a 4 year old relationship and have good communication.
we generally meet once a week or more and otherwise talk on the phone once everyday.
so, recently it had been about 3 weeks that we werent in proper contact and neither saw each other , did have small fights too, nothing serious or new.

Anyway so, when we could finally properly had the time to talk... we did and engaged in phone sex which was amazing for both of us. But after she 'came' she cried. I asked her she said.. that she didn't know why.

I wanna know why would a girl cry like that?

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I thought either its that she was
1. overwhelmed
2. Feels terrible as she was hiding something from me?(though we share good relation)

Oh and she had a year and half long relationship before me, which ended bad, and the guy showed his true colours.

or could it still be something else?

[obiwansmistress]

Sometimes after orgasming, sex, or just fooling around, I start crying, and when my husband asks why, I genuinely don't know, I just end up getting so overwhelmed with like emotions (good ones) and having that kindof release feels so good that I end up crying.

[Asker]

Yeah, This is exactly what she does and probably feels..
So its normal and I shouldn't be worried?
You must be sensitive and so is she..

[obiwansmistress]

Im not really sensitive usually, but yeah sometimes when my husband and I are being very intimate I get emotional. It's normal, don't worry about it.

If you have a good relationship, and are honest with each other then believe her when she tells you she doesn't know.

[Asker]

Yes we are honest and have a good relationship, yeah so that may be it.
Thank you. I feel at ease.

[ThinkPrettyThoughts]

Daddy issues detected.

Run now or prepare yourself for a lifetime of emotional breakdowns, insecurities, and "you don't love me" outbursts.

[Asker]

Nah, common... why would I run for this. I did mention we share a 4 year relationship and love each other and are happy.. but I just wondered if I am missing something here?

Hmm but yea about daddy issues.. her dad isn't a role model exactly.. so could it be that she felt too good after the gap we hadn't been in contact and again confided in me?

[ThinkPrettyThoughts]

She probably really misses you and was just feeling overwhelmed with emotions after the phone sex.

It could even be because you finally had "proper time" to talk and spent a majority of it having phone sex. Maybe she actually wanted to, you know, talk?

[ThinkPrettyThoughts]

And screw you for the down vote, punk.

[Asker]

Hey I didn't downvote you, somebody played.

[Asker]

hmmm, but we already did talk for long and then got on with the phone sex.
Should I bring it up again with her?

would do you make of her saying ' I donno why , i just felt like crying'

[ThinkPrettyThoughts]

You know, it shouldn't hurt to bring it up again. Just ask her calmly and let her know that you're genuinely trying to understand why she cried. You're concerned that something serious might be troubling her.

She might have just needed a good cry. Women are mysterious creatures and sometimes very hormonal. You should be asking HER this instead of strangers online :P

[Asker]

Lol Yeah, actually i asked her once and didn't wanna ask her again as she may accuse me of being umm doubtful of her or that as if she is hiding something from me and that why can't i get over it stuff.

LOL, you're right about the hormonal stuff.. hehe
But yeah, m gonna ask her again in the best way i can! thanks

[SamA_nold]

Maybe there's something wrong, that she's too scared to tell you, or she was just overwhelmed with emotions... either way, something is wrong.

[Asker]

I don't think she would be scared to tell me anything... we share a healthy relationship and communicate well.
My best guess was that maybe she missed all this and yea was overwhelmed maybe. But can be wrong.
she may have been scared after all.

so would do suggest? Do ask her again about this?

[SamA_nold]

I would ask her again. Make sure that everything's al-right, but don't force her to tell you or anything. Try and flirt with her, slowly and see if she warms up to you.

[Asker]

Okay I ll ask her again.. but lol i do not think i need to flirt with her (we share a 4 year old relationship).
But i ll ask her lovingly and make it comfortable for her not be too pushy. :-) thanks

[heythere67]

It felt too good that she couldn't resist

[Asker]

ok , I hope so.

[heythere67]

Trust me, it's quite common

[Asker]

Lol okay.. yeah i guess thats it.
I really can't think of another reason.

[heythere67]

I actually want to do that to a girl, make her feel so good that she would start crying.

[Asker]

Lol, well for me what worked was that it actually had been long.. so we missed each other.

I initiated it, obviously.. and i talked good..;-).
so It's rare when all the factors favour you exactly. but they did that day, and it was superb!

[xchocolatebunnies]

Maybe she just misses you and its literally not the same in real life as it is on the phone so maybe she misses your touch or something

[Asker]

okay, so she overwhelmed?

[xchocolatebunnies]

Yea I'd say so

[Asker]

okay! , thanks for the help :-)