My girlfriend says she wears the pants in the relationship and tells me to step up but refuses to step down. What do I do?

[Reallysimple21]

[JulyAndrews]

What kind of comment is that? Very disrespectful in my book. I would never speak to my loved one in such a degrading way.

Sometimes I believe that most people in a relationship don't love their partners and are just in a relationship to just be able to say "I have boyfriend/girlfriend.

[fenixx0083]

I feel the same way about marriage, on the whole 😕

[JulyAndrews]

Yeah I agree..

[LittleSally]

That's the problem in those types of relationships - maybe she wants both of you to have 'balls'?

[zombiebabe]

so she wanna be the dominant one? man... in a relationship it should always be 50/50

[Xelebrum]

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=icGN07Ecnjs

If that doesn't work, then leave. Relationships never work out when one person feels the need to control the other. Especially when that person emasculates the other while doing it.

[Macklin91]

You step up without asking her and she'll follow your lead.

[Gojira]

Dump her and find a girl that doesn't have control issues. Way too many hot, normal girls out there to have to put up with that bs.

[Mesonfielde]

Ehhhh... Not the best choice in women, that is certain. She is not mature, and she is implicitly sexist.

[JohnBhoy94]

She's letting you know you're not acting like a man, that you're acting like a wuss...

Stand up for yourself and act like a man or she'll leave you.

[Mesonfielde]

You say that as if that was a bad thing. This type of behavior is not beneficial to anyone.

[eddzeeman]

She likes control perhaps.. Which will make it abit harder. Either leave her or put her in her place.. I get everyone wants control, but a relationship should be 50/50

[weirdoldmann]

lol, break up, trust me girls like that are trouble

[Im_So_Fancy]

Lol, a relationship should be 50/50.

[MrHart]

Take it up a notch!!! Make the decisions my man!

[Jared____]

Seems like a non issue

[Anonymous]

Break up with her. She's a control freak.