Girls, My girlfriend bodybuilder has taken a more dominant role, what do I do?

[Anonymous]

My girlfreind who lift weights is taller, bigger and much stronger then me. She is very aggressive, has huge muscles and is super strong!! she has taken a dominant role in our relationship? in and out of the bedroom. What do I do to change this? She wants to control everything.

[boringmurderer]

are you unhappy with this? or do you enjoy it?

it sounds like you're unhappy with it and /don't/ enjoy it - which, unfortunately, means you two aren't very compatible. you aren't compatible in the bedroom nor are you compatible in other areas of your relationship. :\

but to keep from jumping to conclusions, you should talk to her about it - express your concerns that you'd appreciate a little more dominance in and out of the bedroom. if she's willing, you might be more compatible than originally thought. if she isn't willing to let go of some of her control, then you might want to consider just being friends. :\ bc it's difficult to be /just friends/ with a controlling person, let alone having a full romantic relationship.

[tellmefantasies]

Hehe.. sounds cool but troublesome.

Start taking control of the little things. Take small decisions and force her to give in. It can be from the food of your choice to the clothes you want her to wear to the kind of condom/position you use. Just show her that you also have your say in the relationship.

But her being stronger and taller doesn't mean she's dominant in your relationship. She might have been wanting to match up to you so she was trying her hardest, showing that she too can be as capable. If it's a healthy competitive spirit, it's good. You might as well wrestle with her and laugh about it.

[AmandaLynn1930]

tell her how you feel. is she taking anything? maybe thats affecting her mood and personality. females don't get huge without being on some kind of something.

[Asker]

yes she is on a few things. Her clit is huge! you would not believe she had a big one to begin with now its enormous. I like her but she want to dominate everywhere.

[AmandaLynn1930]

thats probably her personality now. taking stuff really messes with you. kinda sucks. but she probably jsut feels like she wears the pants.
you gotta tell her how u feel!

[Asker]

I do but she does not listen she is much stronger and can control the relationship and i have become more submisive in the bedroom too. She is taking gulp more of a top role.. if you know what i mean. Its new for me.. im confused.

[AmandaLynn1930]

all you can do is tell her how you feel... and if she repspects you enough to keep herself under control (sometimes) so you both can be dominant then she will change. if not you guys might not be compatible.

[Asker]

I will try. She loves to compare her huge clit with my member and kidd me about it. It is funny but kind of embarrising.!

[Azara]

what kind of 'role' do you want her to take?

what kind of role do you want to take?

her size has nothing to do with 'dominance'. thats a psychologicAl state not physical.

[nirali792]

Let her control it for a while
Give her d high and slowly and gradually take charge
If u do anything suddenly it might not have a good effect
Go wid d flow

[Anonymous]

😂😂😂😂😂

[Asker]

so whats your opinion on this