Guys, My boyfriend has a "The Fappening" Account, Not for celebrities but for, trading nudes?

[Anonymous]

I have been snooping due to things I found recently, a secret snapchat account with hundreds of girls, instagram likes, etc.

I came across the worst: An account where he participated in a forum called "Our Wives>>>Pictures from my ex's, No Sharing, Just Post"

It gets worse, he had a conversation with another user. This user asked "wanna trade?" My boyfriend replied "show me what you have to offer."

The conversation ends there but in his emails he has a reply in which it shows he sent images to a user and the user replies "nice, have any videos?"

I am beyond devasted. I don't know what to do, please help me.

[elpylp]

If you feel this breaches the terms of your relationship enough, just leave him.
If you want to try and understand why he is doing these things, then ask him.
If he finds out you've been snooping he might leave you out of defensiveness.
So the power is in your hands to some degree in deciding where to go from here.
Personally I'd give him the chance to explain himself without going rage on him, and do my best to understand the whys and the whats. He may see the error of his ways and accept a second chance, if you were to offer it to him. Especially if you offer a calm method of reproach to him.
But if you are done with him then that's that.

[madhatters4]

dump him. what else do you need to know? the guy sounds like he's either trading pics of you or of other women. otherwise it seems like he isn't really doing the "right" thing

my feeling is the moment you feel like you have to start snooping (AKA you don't trust him) the relationship has hit a turning point. either trust has to be re-established or the relationship is doomed

[Anpu23]

Well you are going to have to confront him on it.
ultimately you only have 4 choices though
1 forgive and forget
2 couples therapy
3 leave him
4 go all femdom on him and punish him, make sure that he doesn't do it again.

But really most likely he's going to lie and you're going to have to leave him. Sorry

[DarkxAngel20]

Wow it's time to confront him and end things with him. This guy's a fucking asshole.

[BertMacklinFBI]

uhh you can be straight with him that you snooped but also that you are livid at what you found or you can pretend nothing happened and move on or a combination of the first or second one including dumping him and moving on.

[dudegrt09]

BREAK UP... NOW, Seems like this guy doesn't care about your well being and privacy at all.

[DaddyRollingStone]

So what are you angry about, that he looks at photos of naked women on the internet?

[Krushhbrownies]

He needs to be punched

[Asker]

thank you

[kiler1000]

i say ditch the scum bag