Women tend to be more judge mental. If most of his friends are female he could be worried that they will judge you too harshly, they could also be very over protective of him.
Also many relationships where a person has many friends of the opposite sex tend to have a lot of problems. It takes a very secure woman to date a guy like that. Maybe he had a fling with a few of them and he's afraid of it being brought up. Maybe he had a serious ex they all adored and got really close to.
Maybe wait for an occasion where a get together is required. Like is his birthday coming up? If so maybe plan something for him and have him invite his friends.
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Yes, this is a red flag to me because why can't he introduce you to all of his life? You say that most of his friends are female (another red flag) and that they ask to meet you so they do know about you but he is keeping you separated for a reason. Does he have something to hide? Is he worried that something from his past will be revealed? Was he once a major player? 9 months is a long time to not meet your SO's friends which means he is keeping a part of his life away from you.
What does he say when you ask to meet his friends?
I would be worried if I were you. He stills needs to spend time with friends and not just you.
Strange...
Was his idea to make you met his family?
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that's a bit weird.. i can't think of a reason why he would do that
yes it sounds like he may have something to hide.
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