I'm in my 40s. I've never hit a woman.
If I saw some random woman abusing one of my kids, she's getting knocked tf out. So there are scenarios where I'd hit a woman, and have no regrets. But it's not usual - it's never come up in decades, and hopefully never will.
"if you hit me first" Hopefully if he could restrain he would, but fighting back is fighting back, until the other person has been beaten back, and then it's abuse.
'if you cheated on me' 'if you crashed my car' - neither of these excuse violence, in my opinion.
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If you think a woman can hit a man but he can't hit back, you are spoiled. Do you want equality or not?
But you should never hit someone you love over a car, regardless of gender. I can understand being that upset over cheating, but, again, hitting doesn't help.
Ask him if he was serious. But don't expect him to be your punching bag. Men can feel pain, too.
of course not talk to him about it and if he still thinks the same thing dump his ass because that's sucked up guys should never hit girls and especially because he was so casual, if u ever did accidently crash his car he won't hesitate to hit you.
He could just be saying that, he might not really mean it... you should talk to him
Yeah so you should break up now.
Yup. Now is the time for that to be done.
If someone even has to give conditions that they'll hit you, break up.
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Silly thing for him to say. I was raised old school... never hit a woman. Period. No reality if a crazy woman was coming at me with a knife and i cannot retreat well i would have to defend myself. But if my girlfriend asked would you ever hit me? it would be a strong no.
If there's anything a man deserves pain and injury for, then a woman deserves the same pain and injury for doing the same thing.
It has NOTHING to do with what gender the perp and victim have.
Saying things like "Men should never hit women" is unnecessary and only suggests that women are more innocent, and that their health and safety is worth more than mens'.
A woman who punches a man in the face and breaks his nose is worse than a man who punches a woman in the face and doesn't break her nose.
A man who punches a woman in the face and breaks her nose is worse than a woman who punches a man in the face and doesn't break his nose.Yes , no guy should lay a hand on a girl or woman no matter what
yes he is in the wrong for sure and you better do a double take on him
cause i think your too young to be up against a guy who would think nothing to
hit you i think it's good you make yourself distant from him and move on
this is serious matter and yes it can get worst ,If I was a girl and you said something like that to me, that would be the last ride we took.
Over crashing a car? What a piece of shit.He'd hit you if______.
That's enough to dump his ass.i think he was just talking without even thinking about it
and he's 17, he's not mature yet if he think about hitting you just bcoz you're crashing his car
he's just said it... let it goI mean im not saying hitting is the right thing to do. But if a guy was being an asshole, or he cheated, a lot of girls would probably slap him. So he might of meant it that way, and not in a beating the shit out of you way. I guess
Make him your ex boyfriend asap. There is no reason to be hitting a bf/gf, not even if they hit you first, esp if it's not even in self-defense.
listen to me - dump him, its not your job to make him understand that is wrong, dont try to fix him, encourage him to talk to someone else about that
Ever hear that song red wine?
"Red, red flags, he's not the one for you red red flags"Move on from that punk.
and he's still your boyfriend why?
It's called a love tap.
He's probably all talk though.
People who cheat deserve to be beaten brutally.
Leave him now!!
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