Boyfriend said he doesn't want to have sex every time we hang out. Last night we were all over each other and he stopped and asked if we could cuddle?

[Anonymous]

What does this mean, is it a good thing? Do a lot of guys do this? I think most of the guys in my past were just all about sex and not into cuddling so im curious if this is common?

[YatoNoragami]

I don't think it's a bad thing necessarily. It could very well have to do with his sex drive or it could have to do with his views about sex. I used to think that sex was... well sex, and my drive was low because of it. It wasn't till I felt that sex was another way to communicate love and affection that my labido really took off because I want the one I'm in love with to know how much I love/adore/admire/trust/care about them. To me, sex is a conversation. A hot, sweaty, adventurous, comical, dramatic, soft, rough conversation. Never gets old :)

Maybe try and talk about what he thinks sex is about. Hopefully you can help him to see it closer to the way you do :)

[JohnnyBananas]

Not necessarily common but some guys out there would like to cuddle or change things up. Doing the same thing again and again can get boring. If it bothers you, talk to him. If you can't communicate these things to him and have to turn to G@G for answers, your relationship is doomed. Communication is key. I'm sure he'll be honest with you.

[Red_Arrow]

The time to make the decision to just cuddle is before you are all over each other. Being all over each other is on the way to something greater and arouses one more to go for sexual gratification.

[lkjhg69cum]

Uhhhh... WTF? No, not common, not normal. Cuddle after sex. If he isn't trying to pull a move showing you he has restraint or something, then I'd be worried about him.

[dakraziest]

He wants to make this relationship into something serious and thinks that having too much sex will make this relationship go downhill

[Anonymous]

It's a good thing if your sex drives are similar. It's a bad thing if they're not.

I love cuddling. And sex. Some people hate both. Some are more into one.

[nakedalligator]

He's doing it because he thinks that's what women want. he doesn't actually want it though.

[TheGuyFromMiddleEast]

Does it have to be common? What happens if it's common? What happens if it's not?

[takumii]

Lol , are you sure you are not the guy and he is not the girl?

[Anonymous]

Well we are horny but we don't have to stick it in every time. We do like to cuddle too. So it's good and he's not treating you like a piece of meat

[Anonymous]

Could be bad, could be good, but, hey, at least he's still with you, right?

[SITdown]

I think it is time you both should see other men.

[orphan]

it means he's on his rag.

[dev765]

You wore him out.