Boyfriend says the reason he doesn't want to sleep with me?

[Anonymous]

is because of my personality, he says i am a mean person and that i turn him off

[MotorcycleMan]

Well, that would do it for me.
I find that most "mean" people don't realize how mean they come across and often aren't really meaning to be mean. Sometimes people just being "honest" comes across as just mean. Think about how your actions and words will make others feel and treat people with the respect that you want them to treat you with.

[RasberrySlushPuppy]

yeah that is a problem, I've experienced a girl who was mean and she came across very deliberate. I didn't sleep with her and i stopped seeing her. Another girl was entirely vanilla and frigid so shed say things and i went off her and left. Both these girls cared about their appearance instead of their personality.

[Anonymous]

It's similar for me. I liked one girl after some time getting to know her , I realised she was a very bad person. Mean , rude , liar. I wanted to end everything as I hate bad drama. She even offered sex , but I could not get excited anymore. Crazy girls aren't worth it. At least guys with standards will not do

[RasberrySlushPuppy]

'realised' rings a bell, funny isn't it how they act nice at the start. They are hiding their true self.

[ChrisMaster69]

Well just tell him he’s an ex boyfriend.

if he says you are like this why did you get together and why has he not moved on

[RasberrySlushPuppy]

likelihood is the guy eventually will. But this girl won't leave him alone.

[have_a_good_day]

How does it make you feel?
Tell us about the relationship you have with your father

[Wise4myage]

Then what's the point in staying with him? Break up and focus on yourself.

[Hanmakev]

Maybe you’ve gained weight I've fucked women I literally hate

[abc3643]

Yeah, your relationship is at an end. Move on.

[karaspara]

Odd that he is with you then strange boy

[Asker]

I told hij why do u speak to me then and offer your help?

[JosyJosy]

then why the hell is he with you

[ThatNoUVAtYourEyes]

Bitchiness is a huge turnoff