Why doesn't he want to spend the night with me?

Anonymous
I have been dating a great guy for about 2 months now. He will not sleep over at my house, and prefers if I do not sleep at his. He says that he cannot sleep well with me there. The one time that he slept over, he wanted to leave but I told him that I would be hurt if he did not stay. He stayed until 5am and then left. I spent the night once at his place and since then he always drops hints like saying "can you swing by tonight?" or "stop by for a few hours," which implies that he does not want me to stay.

We get along very well and the sex is amazing. But we have not had the conversation yet that "defines the relationship." I am hurt that does not want to spend the night with me, as I like sleeping with someone all night.

What does this mean?

Why doesn't he want to spend the night with me?
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