What do you do when you have lost faith in men?

[Anonymous]

Look before anyone gets annoyed, yes I agree there are shit women out there as well. I am just saying in my experience with relationships, I just feel like giving up. And that in this generation it is all just about sex, I feel like guys will do whatever they can just to get into a woman's pants and they play games. There is guys online that just end up playing girls and if you go to a bar or club, they wind up doing the same thing, so where are the good guys hiding? Are they taken? I know it's generalising but it's how you begin to feel.. And a lot just make out that they are a good guy and then turn out not to be.

[Tori_Ritorna]

When you've lost faith in trusting your heart with men in general then you need to start placing your trust in yourself... Trust yourself to be able to find the strength to get through anything you face. No matter how broken you feel. Never place your happiness in someone else's hands because once they've gone... so is your happiness.

Love never comes with a guarantee. No one can promise to never hurt you , people change so their feelings change. So you just have to trust in your own strength to deal with any changes in a relationship.

Good guys can break your heart too, because people are not loyal to you. They are only loyal to their own needs and wants. Once their loyalties change them so do their priorities.

[justbanANNAz]

you find your faith again.
i understand how u feel.

i think u just need time. time and space. get away from the dating, clubbing, hooking up, whatever else u might do scene for awhile, and just enjoy your own company with friends and family.

those guys are out there, but there aren't many left... don't give up on them.

[dakraziest]

Well u can start by making a few friends
Male friends are a thing and if u can find the right people they will not just keep u safe but will help u navigate through the shitty pool of shit men