I don't trust and lost all faith in men?

[kc2043]

I don't trust men anymore after being taken advantage of , mind games, lied to, trauma, anx controlling tendencies. I don't hate men, but has anyone accepted that will be single indefinitely, and love is not meant for them? I'm ok being single, celibate, and never getting married...

It's been 12 going on 13 years since sex and a relationship with a man

[Willlovewinintheend]

If you want to stay alone that's fine with me. You can date women or just stay single. No one is stopping you.

[inverted]

Do you want to get a position to where you can trust a man again?


If you’re happy being single, that’s totally fine

[HelpfulWoman]

You're being a female incel in the first paragraph.
Losing "all faith in men" shows you are damaged and that you should seek counselling, regardless if you do not go into any more relationships with them.

[kc2043]

I have done counseling and I'm not being an incel - just don't trust men and have become guarded due to past experiences

[kc2043]

Damaged no - guarded yes did 10 years of therapy, but will not get close to men again or let my guard down

[kc2043]

None of them give me a reason too

[kc2043]

Don't hate men , but stay my distance because of their nature and hate towards women what I'm learning

[kc2043]

Yes I have most are trash 🗑... don't trust women well and at least I'm not the only one who feels this way

[kc2043]

I wish men the best I really do

[clampfan101]

I know there are still good men out there, but it’s your choice.

[kc2043]

Far few and between too scared to even date the way how people play games nowadays and lie

[clampfan101]

I don’t play games and am extremely honest. Though I admit I’m also shy. Maybe just look for someone cute and shy.

[BarryLiverstone]

What is your question?