Have you lost faith in relationship?

[hippio]

Honestly, everywhere on internet there's infidelity news. Feels like people commit into a relationship just to cheat. What do you think

[Summeroflove]

Well not everyone is like that but it’s people who lack the ability to build a genuine connection with someone else. If someone is in a relationship for sex, for money, etc. The chances of them cheating are extremely high and most will cheat more times then one can count. Until they're bored of you, until they find someone better, until you sucked you dry, etc.

To them most of them see sex as a sport. It’s fun it’s about the risk. The thrill. The taboo. The degrading the everything bad about sex. It’s not about building a connection with someone they genuinely love. They may use sex to control someone but they have had sex with so many people by that point.

To be a good human being is a choice. But a lot of people think they’re getting ahead by using people. It’s fun at first but these people end up in a world that’s beyond miserable later on in life. The joke is really on these people

[ohsheeT]

Yes our world has changed
One of the most beautiful things in this world is it is being loyal yes we loyal to yourself before you can do it for anybody else and same with love he has to love yourself before you can love anybody or anybody can really love you

But nowadays it's like everybody feels their entitled to do what they want when they want.. and when they're in a relationship it's even worse

But anyway to answer your question I lost faith in people I think but not in a relationship for me so I have to have faith because if I don't have it then I'm not going to find what I'm looking for I would rather have that Faith than just give up you're not even tried those are the relationships that you want the ones you find with faith and your heart

So don't lose faith you know that person is out there you can feel it I know you can

[Nikki1989]

The internet is a negative influence riddled with lies and total BS depending on where you look. There are millions of happy people in relationships, but you won't find many on misery-soaked whine fests like this one. This site is such a downer sometimes, but thankfully it is not reality for most people.

[Garud]

Happy people hardly comment on the net but sad people comment all the time on the net.

[hippio]

Thanks. That helped

[DJB72]

My marriage lasted 21 years and ended when she passed away a couple of months ago.

Don't give up. There's actually more guys out there who want to commit than otherwise.

You might want to check in your friend zone. That's not a judgement or an accusation, just an observation that a lot of people don't really see the right person for life because they're hung up on looks, salaries, etc.

[Staximus]

There are a lot of insincere people these days, poor communicators, and people who fear showing their feelings or emotional intimacy. Especially with the younger generation. Hopefully the right woman will come along for me before I die haha

[DryGermanGuy]

No, but as the knight in Indiana Jones and the Last Crusade said, "choose wisely."

[ChicoFromThe305]

I stopped prioritizing it, when it happens it will, I have things to keep me busy or my mind on other things

[Wise4myage]

I agree with what you are saying, it seems to be happening a lot these days.

[hippio]

Honestly, i used to think i will marry one guy and will spend the whole life with him. But nowadays it seems like he'll leave me anyways

[Wise4myage]

All you can do is hope for the best and live life to the fullest.😊

[Anonymous]

Marriage, yes. Relationships, no, at least not completely.

[NathanDavis]

no need to, I've never had issues with them

[Desi_Butcher]

Don't believe the internet.

[MicahRaine]

I haven't lost faith but I am pretty scarred

[TonyMetal___86]

From a lonnnnng time ago 😄

[Founding_Daddy]

I hear that a lot, and totally understand it :(

[Jmmmfi4]

Basically