Will quiet girls remain single forever?

[Anonymous]

Generally, lively guys prefer equally lively girls. And quiet guys always want lively girls who can carry the conversation. These days, everyone is looking instant connection and spark so they don't even bother to give second date to a quiet girl with whom they didn't have 'fun' on first date. Are girls like me supposed to stay single forever?

[Levin]

Funny, I was thinking the same about being a quiet guy :) Some more outgoing girl was making an effort with me last night, but I wasn't feeling it. I had my eyes on some quiet girls, but without a herculean effort from me, it wasn't going to happen. If you're a quiet girl, it's important that you show signals and interest. Insecurity may come off as a lack of interest :)

Come to think of it... Quiet? I mean, everyone has differing personalities. But even as a quiet person, I presume there are moments when you become rather more animated and talkative: You feel connected to a person. I have a quiet female friend, and we're both more introverted people, but around each other, we warm up a lot. There's a lot of chemistry, and warmth in each others' eyes, and interest in each other, and much talking. Even if it isn't the same kind of loud boisterous prattle of *some* extroverted people. ;)

Should happen around guys you really like. Chemistry comes naturally. If it's not, as I say, you may be self conscious or unsure of yourself? Effecting your ability to project, as I say, interest.

[Dim_121]

No your not supposed to stay single forever. Those are the career chicks. You just need to find a small group that you feel comfortable with and then get used to talking and being around guys. So that you can loosen up and have fun when your dating guys.

[Asker]

But guys generally go for first impression.

[Dim_121]

That is why you join a group like a church young adult group, club, exetra. You get used to giving a good first impression by practicing.

[Asker]

Well, yes. I have joined dancing club, but I generally take time to open up.

[Dim_121]

so do most shy/quiet guys. Relax the guy's know that your the quiet type. If it does not work out with them then that is because they wan't a girl with a different personality. It has nothing to do with you being quiet.

[Thefighter1212]

I'm really quite and I've just got into a relationship two months ago, don't worry you just have to wait for the right time

[Robet1330]

Hello.

Oh gosh no quiet girl are viewed as a good catch in my opinion. I actually prefer them, just because your quiet doesn't mean your not attractive. Guys maybe don't know what to say to start the conversation that's all. Generally loud girls just go for it and grab what they want

The quieter ones are the much more fun and generally better in the bedroom trust me. So don't worry you'll be really happy

Always be yourself and don't change for some guy.

[Asker]

Well yes, I am trying to be myself. But maybe that's why I have been single for such a long time. :/

[Robet1330]

No it's not. Are you really shy or just not loud. And I guess it depends if you go out places.

Honestly I love shy or quiet girls. You tend to be quiet while out but more lively in other areas to make up for it. I would love to date someone like you.

You honestly sound lovely. You
Maybe just need to boosted your confidence so come across more approachable but still remain quiet and yourself.

I don't know what you look like but I'm sure your pretty. You certainly sound genuinely nice as a person. X

[Asker]

Well thanks a lot for writing this out. I am understanding what you are saying. I think I am cute, but more like innocent-type cute despite being 20. And I take time to get comfortable, but then I am really fun. It just takes time, and I think, these days people don't want to spend their time and are looking for instant connection or sparks.

[Robet1330]

Well you do sound like a real catch. Your the kind of girl I would date and love to be with.

You have the whole package or looks and personality. You just need the opportunity now. So be patient, and true to yourself, love will find you when your least expecting it or not looking normally. Get yourself talking to nice guys who will treat your right and don't shy away from getting out. Xx

[jman46241]

No, quiet girls do not remain single forever. It's generally not hard for a woman to find a guy, just to find a guy they like. You just haven't found what you're looking for yet.

[Asker]

But guys may find it frustrating initially to have to tackle a quiet girl.

[JustChilling]

I find the quiet ones sometimes can be on the wild side since they haven't been with a guy in a while. I wouldn't hesitate to introduce myself if I were single. Need to be sure they aren't the clingy type though in case it doesn't work out.

[GingerGuy]

It depends how quiet you are. We might also take your quietness as disinterest. Work on it. You'll find someone eventually. There are equally quiet guys.

[singlebee]

Nope there are guys like me who would like a quiet girl like you... Lol but not too quite lol

I mean you don't have to be loud but not completely quite..

[Anonymous]

Well, luckily for you, you probably live in a society (unless you live on another planet than the rest of us) where all girls expect us guys to "man up" and approach first.

So I'm fucked and destined to live alone for the rest of my life

[Anonymous]

Mature and understanding ambiverts will go for girls like you.
Look good, be exceptional and someone will find you.

[TwentySomething]

Nah. Promiscuous girls tend to end up alone a lot of the time.

[Anonymous]

Nope. Women don't have to talk or be socially gifted to get a boyfriend. Only guys have to talk and be socially gifted to get a girlfriend.

[rgb008]

With that attitude, you will.

[fueledbythc]

Then you gotta be bold

[Anonymous]

Don't be shy. Confidence is hot so don't be shy

[Intraluminal]

Not at all.

[Asker]

Well I hope so.