My boyfriend got mistaken for a girl?

[labbie87]

My boyfriend & I were talking last night & he was at Culvers a couple days ago. He was having lunch with his boss & this old lady who was a "bus boy" thought that he was a girl. -_-

Granted he does have a high pitched whiner voice, his hair is stuck straight & straw blonde & it has grown past his ears...(not like to his shoulders, more like he'd have wings if he wore a baseball hat!)

Not really sure what to think... Offended? Disgusted? I feel like HE'd be offended... I wanna suggest... like, working out or something, but I don't wanna offend or piss him off...

[Mesonfielde]

This is his concern and not yours, I don't see why you'd want to say

"hey, I know we've been dating for a while, but if you want that TOTALLY RANDOM PERSON to not think you're female, you should start working out"

This is not very supportive. I'd be pissed at you, lol.
He probably doesn't really care, I'd just let it be.

[iFarted]

Soo he's like one of these type of guys?

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If you love him and he doesn't mind then you shouldn't even be bothered.

[labbie87]

Lmao no... his hair isn't that long! Haha

[fauchelevent]

Ehh, my boyfriend gets mistaken for a girl sometimes because his hair goes down to the small of his back. You can suggest working out to him if you want but I don't see why it's a big deal.

[meatballs21]

"he does have a high pitched whiner voice"

Way to be supportive.

[labbie87]

Just being honest...

[Anonymous]

I wouldn't suggest anything.

Or you can suggest surprise she'd think that.

Other then that, anything suggesting you understand why she'd make the mistake is just bad bad bad.

[HentaiMaster23]

Why does how others perceive your boyfriend matter, you like him so why does it matter what others think about him, he's yours

[doctorwhofan23]

Maybe working out wouldn't hurt. How have things been

[labbie87]

Been alright... hbu?

[doctorwhofan23]

Pretty good just busy with work.

[frozenhorizon]

That always happens occasionally if you're a guy and your hair is longer than a few inches.

[Sojex]

Just don't get mad if you bring up him changing his appearance and he has some changes he'd like you to make. The sword cuts both ways