Is it domestic violence if me and my boyfriend fist fight all the time?

[Anonymous]

We seriously FIGHT each other. Sometimes he hits me first and sometimes I hit him. He usually wins, but at least I get some good hits in. People say its unhealthy but I think its a good way to unleash anger towards each other.

It is

It's not

A total of 105 votes were cast: 61 girls and 44 guys. See detailed results

[Phoenix98]

Well if your actually sparring and practicing martial arts or another type of fighting then no it's not domestic violence.

But if your doing it because he pissed you off or you pissed him off or something like that then yes it can be considered that.

[limousin]

It seems to me that you have serious problems, in that both of you like the fighting.
It may be ok for a while, but when someone gets hurt, look-out!
Violence solves nothing.

[limousin]

And YES, it is domestic violence!!!

[Cloudy25]

If you fight each other with anger and with the intention of hurting each other then yes it is absolutely wrong and unhealthy, you should stop immediately and talk with someone about it

[AzureGirl]

It's not healthy in the slightest. If anything I think that shows the both of you have major anger issues if you just resort to physical violence on one another.

[Anonymous]

Doesn't sound like it. It's more a domestic fight than domestic violence. Just be careful you don't get beat up one day.

[ShayanMortazavi1]

That's still assault on both sides

[Opinion Owner]

@ShayanMortazavi1 Yea yea, if they wanna fight let them fight. Violence is essentially natural, if it's done with consent from both then who cares?

[ShayanMortazavi1]

It's only legal if it's done in an MMA gym or something like that and both sides sign a waiver

[Opinion Owner]

@ShayanMortazavi1 We'll just have to disagree on that.

[ShayanMortazavi1]

That's the law, look it up

[Opinion Owner]

@ShayanMortazavi1 The law does not inflict my opinion.

[Remonster]

Become sparring partners in a boxing gym. Much more rewarding!

[Anonymous]

When a couple resorts to violence to settle conflict, nobody wins.

"A good way to unleash anger?" on what planet?

[John_Doesnt]

It is childish and dangerous. You should both stop hitting each other.

[ChiraqMisfit]

I couldn't do that. I can't even "play fight" without getting mad and shit start turning serious

[fueledbythc]

Why be in a relationship like that? You're just gonna hurt yourself.

[Kylesar]

He's playing with fire
At will, he can be arrested and thrown in jail, even if you kick his ass

[Anonymous]

I don't think it's violence.. Because you both are doing it with consent...

But I don't know if it's healthy or not..

[TheOldMan59]

You kids aren't mature enough to be in a relationship.

[Minxxie]

Sounds like a shitty unhealthy relationship

[GiftShop]

I really hope you're trolling, but yes?

[the-mad-german]

maybe you should join any MMA club or something...

[Waffles731]

Unless you are boxing thats domestic violence

[ShayanMortazavi1]

Yes, you both need to be arrested for assault

[ShayanMortazavi1]

A lot of domestic violence cases actually are fist fights and both people get arrested

[WhaChaChaKing]

Wow lol if y'all are okay with it then go crazy.

[MoonlitSonata]

Do you hurt each other badly?

[cooldude25]

it it.. you both could turn out to be abusers

[fauchelevent]

Yes, I think it is.

[dudeinohio]

yes it is

[Azngypsy89]

Leave him

[Anonymous]

that's hot