Is it okay to slap your boyfriend when mad or is that considered domestic violence?

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Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Girl what? If the roles were reversed it's obviously not okay so what makes it okay for you to do it? You don't need a relationship you need to see a therapist and work on yourself. Why would you think this is okay 🤦

WhatTheHeckkkk · Accepted Answer

It is NOT okay. It’s domestic abuse 100%.  Learn how to communicate when you’re angry.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

It is okay to use physical aggression towards your partner only when necessary to protect your own safety or the safety of a bystander. Those are situations which rarely present themselves to most people and, when they do, slapping is extremely ineffective to deter physcal agression from your partner, so. . . never.

Guy13 · Answer

Can I pop you in the face when I become angry at you⁉️
Some people’s switch flips when you slap them or your spit from screaming is hitting his cheek. Talk about inviting trouble and ER visit 🙀.
Really, I want know please.-Why the question 🤔

Genie23 · Answer

It's not. It's never okay to hit anyone regardless of their gender.

TheorionMage · Answer

As a former LEO, criminal 'assault' is NOT limited by the Assailant's gender!
I've NEVER physically struck a woman FIRST, but I have defended myself reflexively
using APPROPRIATE proportional force to dissuade her continued assault.
The 'test' of Law is... "Were YOUR actions those of a prudent & reasonable person?"

You as a private citizen, have the obligation to withdraw IF POSSIBLE to CEASE further conflict;
whereas a police officer does NOT have that option, in defense of the public's safety.
They undertook an Oath and obligation "to PROTECT & Serve" in return for the privilege to apply MEASURED use of SUPERIOR force for the public good.

humpbackjack · Answer

It’s never ok to hit someone you love because you’re mad or anyone love or not of course I’m not guilty of domestic violence but as recent as just a few years ago I was quick to throw hands with another man for stupid reasons or serious reasons so I’m not the best one to ask except I won’t hit the woman I love and it would have to be a severe situation for me to hit any woman. It’s sad that we live in a world where violence is a necessity but it’s only a necessity in severe situations and even when my wife has hit me my words were enough to get my point across I hit too hard to hit my wife back but she shouldn’t of ever hit me to begin with so the answer is no it’s not ok

Heartache0405 · Answer

It’s abuse. Unfortunately it’s acceptable abuse to be abusive to a man if you’re a woman. Even the ones who agree. They get mad, they hit and immediately regret it. But they still did it. Isn’t that still abuse? Or because it was spur of the moment it’s alright? And because she’s a woman she should be given clemency? Yeah, FUCK THAT. I’m not giving any woman the benefit of the doubt. They should all fuck off

JoyGirl · Answer

No, it is NOT ok.
That will trigger the guy, and he may also hit back. He will get in trouble, and not you. That will ruin his life.

You can only hit him if he is a violent partner. Even at that, it is better to find a way out of the situation without being violent.
If he has a gun, don’t hit or yell. Stay quiet and calm until you are able to run for help. 👌🏾

CallmeTheKnight · Answer

No. If you do, you deserved to be slapped back and we know how most women are when they receive what they dished out.
There is absolutely no reason to strike, slap, kick, throw objects, or yell at your partner just because you're mad. That just says you have a problem with handling your own emotions. Children act irrational when they're upset, adults shouldn't.

lrina · Answer

would it be considered violence if the genders were reversed? yes, it would. meaning that if a woman slaps a man, it's only fair if it'll be considered as violence.

Vesuvius87 · Answer

No it's not okay. The only you can hit others is:
- Self-defense or defending others (ex: someone is beating your child)
- BDSM in the bedroom
- During sparring in martial arts

If it doesn't fit in those 3 categories, no.

NopeWhatTime · Answer

If you truly love and care about someone, you should have no reason to want to hit them, no matter how angry you are. This is domestic violence regardless of gender.

IMuser · Answer

Reverse the roles and then ask yourself this question

Apulu_3 · Answer

It's extremely bad action and top to that slapping is even disrespectful. You can't use your partner as a stress reliever in abusive way.

VanillaSalt · Answer

Go right ahead… I WILL fuck your shit up. The police will be pulling me off you when they get there so fair warning… I hit back.

dustybiker · Answer

It is never okay to be physically violent to anyone.  It surprises me how many people do not realize that spitting, tossing a drink and or squirting someone with a hose is also assault in the US.

llorando · Answer

It's never OK to hit your boyfriend unless it's in self-defense. Should be considered domestic violence, but since it's a woman hitting a man and not a man hitting a woman it's not. Just one of the double standards that needs to go.

Ninania · Answer

Would it be okay for him to randomly slap you because he's mad?

Sophxoxo · Answer

It’s never ok to physically attack your significant other, or anyone for that matter. And yes, it counts as domestic violence.

TheUniqueOne96 · Answer

The poll results say it all. I hope this is a troll question.

msc545 · Answer

It is absolutely not okay but don't worry if you do it you won't get in legal trouble for it because the police don't arrest women for violence and if they happen to do that the courts won't convict them for violence against men.

SnakeBoop · Answer

It's never okay. Unless the dude is harming you, don't put your hands on anyone?

Lovesims3plumbob · Answer

your wrong. You shouldn't be thinking about slapping a person you like or be in a relationship is called abuse.

Honesttguy · Answer

Learn to control ur anger or settle for low quality male. And enjoy your low life.

May_Summers · Answer

If you think its ok then be ready for his response as well.

Medhat-M · Answer

No i don't think treating your significant other as a punching bag when you're stressed is a healthy thing.. Sorry

Juxtapose · Answer

If I like you, you get one free hit and then a very serious warning. If you ignore my warning, I will probably put you in the hospital so tread carefully.

littlered1015 · Answer

If you wouldn't want him. to do it to you, dont do it to him

Anonymous · Answer

Try to hit me see what happens to you

IveGotNoName · Answer

No. It's never okay to commit a physical act of violence.

Dchrls78104 · Answer

Is it OK for a man to slap his girlfriend when he's mad, or is that considered domestic violence?

JosyJosy · Answer

Domestic Abuse. Losing control like that is never okay.

Anpu23 · Answer

Unless its an agreed BDSM relationship then its domestic violence.

globetrotter22 · Answer

As long as he can slap you (rightfully) back without getting arrested I am all for it

TonyMetal___86 · Answer

I never imagine a girl doing such thing to me unless she wants to live with one arm 😏

admles · Answer

It is 100% domestic violence, and assault. If you slap someone, be prepared to be slapped back.

Iron_Man · Answer

No it’s fine but once in a while the man Will slap you like that in return but he doesn’t mean it personally

Alexis_1996 · Answer

No that domestic violence. If it other way he’ll be in prison. Nothing happen to you. Unless it’s beyond hitting.

TheBigGuy9 · Answer

I’d call it domestic violence. The only time I like to be slapped in the face is during a hardcore sex session.

Jamie05rhs · Answer

Can he slap you? No. Then don't slap him. Do unto others as you wish them to do unto you.

douride2 · Answer

I consider that the same as a guy slapping a woman. You shouldn't be doing it.

Andres77 · Answer

Do unto others... Do I really need to finish this? Keep your hands to yourself.

Evan64 · Answer

This is domestic violence, and I better not hear anyone who is about equality say otherwise.

Andro36 · Answer

I have never done and would never hopefully do it. It is violence and not a proper way to express Im annoyed

Twalli · Answer

My girlfriend hits me lightly without the intent of hurting me when I am being annoying. We joke about it. That's not abuse.

bolverk · Answer

very much not OK, you resort to violence, you've lost the argument.

boobliker · Answer

YES IT IS domestic violence so stop it what if he hit you?

bamesjond0069 · Answer

If you do it expect him to leave and never come back or to hit you back 2x as hard.

Hanrej · Answer

But it's still family safe to do. No man would report it.

SHREYASH007 · Answer

I would get furious and really don't appreciate my so slapping me.

Anonymous · Answer

It's OK to give so long as you can take it as well. 🤣🤣🤣

Anonymous · Answer

If you can slap him, expect the same in return. It's violence either way. I know a slap can be playful or a sex thing even, but still..

neonpetals19 · Answer

it's violence, I blame media for normalizing it, especially anime

AvaOneLasTime · Answer

If you don't want retaliation, don't strike first.

baldsubhuman · Answer

It's only ok if you are ok with a slap back

Cormac995 · Answer

Equal rights equal fights

skyeee_ · Answer

im concerned for the 2% of people who voted for A

FunkyMonkee · Answer

Is it okay for him to hit you when he's pissed?

exitseven · Answer

it is domestic violence. Do not do this

Jay3344 · Answer

Some girls can hit pretty hard

loveslongnails · Answer

Is it ok for him to slap you when he's angry?

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