My ex girlfriend has lost her mind. This is ridiculous?

[Themdnkkm]

Girl for 2 years dumped me. I became clingy and she knew she had me on a string. She broke it off because she lost attraction. So now she finds small reasons to text me and I ignore them for a few hours so it can get her thinking about me and gain attraction.

she texted me at 7:30pm yesterday, I ignored it, then 30 mins later she said "said okay cool..". Because I was still ignoring her. Then texted me at 9:30pm saying "I'm blocking your number and never talking to you again" I replied a few mins after saying sorry I'm busy, then answered her question she asked me at 7:30. She said "too late, your getting blocked, don't try messaging me any other way". I said it's fine do what you need to do. But it didn't go through because she blocked me.

I I know she's sooo immature. But does she want me back? She's obviously hurt. And she dumped me but texts me randomly... So what's the deal here? I'm trying to build attraction so we can get back. Any tips? This hurt me a little

[stripper1]

she is playing games and when you turned the tables on her u basically beat her at her own game and she didn't like it. if she lost any flame for you in a small amount of time, even if u regained her attention and made her want u again, how long would that last? would u have to keep impressing her all the time to keep the sparks going? she is most likely around your age and doesn't even know what the he'll she wants let alone if she wants you in her life or not so by texting u it's her way to keep u on the back burner in case nothing else better pans out with anyone else. and she believed it would be easy to do cause of the string she previously knew she had you on. stay strong and keep up the avoiding her. she is a game player! act like a coach!

[Themdnkkm]

I'm doing fine without her. I was pretty hurt a few weeks ago. I miss this girl though. We spent 2 years together. And what you said seems true, but maybe I can gain her interest and keep if I don't act so needy and clingy like last time. I'd keep her interested by doing different things and maybe she'll fall back in love? I just don't know what goes on in her mind. I can tell she misses me slightly. I'm sure she thinks about me a lot and wondering why she gets no attention from me at all. While it use to be the opposite

[stripper1]

I'm sure she misses the guy she had on a string. you probably did EVERYTHING for her and put her up on a pedestal and she fell in love with THAT I would bet you. She used u as a puppet who was at her beckon call but in the long run she saw that as weak and it got boring. especially if she wants to find other guys to fulfill that role and most likely she hasn't YET and that's why she contacted u those few times when she was lonely or missed her puppet. she would never admit to it though. you don't need a girl like that to fall for u cause she sounds superficial and like I said most likely NEVER going to be pleased regardless of the entertaining things you do for her

[Themdnkkm]

I didn't treat her all that great. I brought her out just a few times. She use to flourish me with gifts back when we first met. She was crazy in love with me. Just recently I've been giving her a lot of good attention.

[JXM94]

Yup. she's testing to see if she really is worth something, you'll text her. She wants you to look for her, obviously she's bothered when you ignore her. What you can do is text her once every hour, once she sees how long your taking, her mind is going to be going places asking herself if even though your the dumpee are you doing better? "Hes hurt why doesn't he text me? I expected him to come back." Kind of thing. Keep the texts shorts and itll make her come back.

[Themdnkkm]

Well I took too long to text her back and she blocked me. So now it's no contact pretty much

[Themdnkkm]

There's more to the story. I avoid talking to her because she said a few weeks ago how she wants nothing to do with me because college next year. We went no contact for a month and she got led on by a different guy and he had sex with her! She said it was because she was hurt but she had feelings. It's a joke

[JXM94]

Then I would just stop contacting her too. she's poison and if anything... i feel like your just a back up if anything fails eith other guys. Be smart and save your time from getting wasted and feelings getting hurt. I hope the best for you.

[neffyxoxo92]

she's playing with you. ignore her and act like it doesn't bother you even if you're dying inside. that will make her want you

[Themdnkkm]

Great advice. And yup that's what I'm doing right now. Usually when shit like this happens, I feel sorry and message her a different way. Now I'm sitting back and ignoring her child games. You think she'll give in and text me sooner or later? Hopefully this regains the attraction she lost for me

[neffyxoxo92]

yes it will. this is what my ex did to me constantly for 8 months. i always bugged him!!! after 8 months i quit bugging him because i thought he was seriously done with me and then he started calling me. we got back together lol. if she tries to talk to you seriously, without games, listen and talk back. but if she's being ridiculous, ignore her

[Themdnkkm]

When she texts me, it's about small dumb reasons. Like a excuse to talk to me. She doesn't flat out talk about our relationship or anything. I'll have small talk convos with her and end it as soon as I can because I want her to beg for me and wonder what I'm up too. So we'll see how it goes from there

[neffyxoxo92]

I wouldn't talk to her at all unless she confronts you about your relationship. completely ignore all small talk

[Themdnkkm]

Yeah I tried and it got me blocked lol. So it's whatever

[MG-TOW]

Don't go for insane. Just go.
It is probably some game she is playing. She wants you to do some stuff and thinks she can manipulate you like that.

[Themdnkkm]

Yeah I'm just doing my own thing. She doesn't hurt me as much as it use to because I've distanced myself. But I do kinda want her back. And yeah that's exactly what she wants. I hope she thinks about me like crazy and comes back. She's been trying to text me everyday. And no lie, she has a inbox of so many guys messaging her. But yet still coming to me. She' can't let me go I guess lol

[MG-TOW]

Just rememeber
1) You don't seek contact with her so you stand out f crowd
2) Women like a challenge

[Themdnkkm]

So she'll be running back soon here huh. Wondering why I didn't give her the attention she thought I'd give her: usually when she does this, I'm all sorry and shit and I message her another way. Hopefully this regains my attraction to her

[Mesonfielde]

You should just keep ignoring those texts, also I'm pretty sure I replied to this same question about 40 minutes ago

[Jeniferh21]

She wants you to beg for it, this might be difficult to do for you since you like the attention she gives you, but block her, just do it, she'll run back to you, but you don't want someone like that in your life, she'll destroy you if you let her and then you'll regret it for the rest of your life

[Sheisthwka81]

Does she want me back? So what if I continue to not care and not do anything.. She'll eventually text me again? And maybe things can go right. Who knows.

[Jeniferh21]

I would slap you right now if I could, she doesn't loves you, she likes the fact that you're a lost puppy, man up and walk away

[Sheisthwka81]

I use to be "lost". I'd give her attention so much. Now I cut cold turkey and text her back hours later and don't give her ANY attention at all. & it's obviously working because she's coming back

[Jeniferh21]

I feel so sorry for you know, but you know what? Do whatever makes you happy

[Anonymous]

Wowwww immature much... dude it's obvious she's playing games with you and you obviously still like her. The best thing to do is move on. she's too childish and you don't deserve to be treated like that. later down the road she may realize what she lost cuz of her immature behavior and you'll be with someone who treats you better. So just let it go move on cut her off completely she doesn't even deserve one second of your attention.

[Sheisthwka81]

I agree. Hope she realizes what she lost sooner or later. Wouldn't mind having her back

[Opinion Owner]

Dude don't even think like that. She's not worth having back. why would you not mind having someone Who treats you like that back? It's time to have some self worth and move on.

[BellePepper]

LMFAO bro this is a two sided problem. Why are you surprised she's pissed after you purposely do things to piss her off? Do you really think you're able to be in a relationship with the way you choose to behave? Is she?

[Sheisthwka81]

She made it clear she doesn't want a relationship because of college next year. And mentioned she lost attraction for me. Why even bother texting back.

[BellePepper]

Well, there must have been some point since you got annoyed when she didn't want to talk with you anymore.

[NJ_Casanova]

It's weird that she was texting so much when she dumped you? Maybe see dumped you to see if you really cared or if you'd chase her? I guess it back fired on her and she got upset that you were ok with her leaving.

[Cmasterson]

Honestly sounds like to me she's playing games with you, I don't know about you but I don't tolerate them one bit.

[Themdnkkm]

Yeah. She is playing games. But maybe she wants me back? Otherwise she wouldn't be texting me every day

[Rainie_]

I really don't think you two should be together if you keep on playing immature games like this. Move on.

[snowangle]

Sounds like you were trying to play a game and it backfired.

[Themdnkkm]

Yeah kinda. What should I do? Let her come to me? And if not, then she obviously didn't want me.. Immature

[snowangle]

Well yeah, she broke up with you didn't she? It's pretty clear she didn't "want" you.

[Themdnkkm]

I agree. She obviously is thinking about me. She's been trying to text me everyday. And she has a lot of guys hit her up. So she could move on if she waned

[IvoirianGirl20]

Stop calling people heartless. I am sick of that word. We just have a different way of dealing with things

[Izzex3]

I don't think she's hurt.
Just sounds bitchy to me.

[Anonymous]

So dating these days all depends on texting techniques. That's really depressing 😔

[Themdnkkm]

I wish it wasn't. I wish she was down for me like I am for her. She told me she lost attraction. I know she cares, otherwise she would converse with me. Now I'm blocked, feeling dumb as heck. Wondering if it would be different if I replied when she first texted. Sucks, why she gotta be like this. She just doesn't want to see me actually go

[Opinion Owner]

Mmmm try to stay away from texting and go out talk with the girl in person

[Jojosandwich]

I'm going through the same exact story did you end up getting back with her or you just moved on

[selmo93]

Sure you posted this before

[Mesonfielde]

You should not get back, she dumped you lol

[Anonymous]

Try to have anal sex with her. It'll soften her up. Had a girl who was like that

[Joshua1820]

Stfu ha

[Anonymous]

Clearly she's just trying to play hard to get

[Joshua1820]

So if i play her game correctly, she'd be crawling back to me I'm guessing?

[Opinion Owner]

Pretty much

[AtomicCheesing]

Don't go back. Move on

[Anonymous]

She's dumb and not worth the trouble.

[babeeeone]

She's crazy