Boyfriend liking other girls pictures, right or wrong?

[Anonymous]

Here comes this common question.
I can't decide whether it's right or wrong. It does hurt just a little bit because in my opinion it's like saying you think you find that person hot. Especially if the girl does look sexy. At the same time I feel like it's so common nowadays and maybe a bit weird to get worked up over. I'm in the early stages of a relationship and this put me off a bit.

[mwin2030]

From my personal perspective, it is human nature to admire beauty in all its forms. That’s just part of life. And your boyfriend looking at pictures of other girls is merely a reflection of that human nature, and that per se is not something you should overly stress yourself over, or get upset about.

That being said, the part that I do find objectionable is the fact that you feel he’s looking at these pictures and you’re being made to feel less than you are through his actions. If you’ve spoken to him about how you feel and he’s discounting your thoughts and feelings that I would consider unacceptable, because if he cared about you or had any tender feelings for you, then he would take how you feel about this seriously and if need be, ceased the behavior causing the rift.

Communication and trust are key components to any healthy, stable, relationship in my view. The both of you need to sit down and talk with each other and you both need to listen to what the other is saying and how they feel. As a couple, it isn’t about the satisfaction of one over the other, but the two of you together. Let him know you don’t mind him looking at the pictures overall, but you feel he’s preferring them to you and you are being hurt by this. Be bold and assertive and just let him know this so you both can get what you need from each other. That’s my bottom line.

[Anonymous]

Regardless of how hot you may or may not be there is always going to be someone better looking. Now w that said a man will most likely always check other women out, the idiot just has to know when and when not to do it. Looking is one thing, taking a glance, but it's ridiculous if it turns into drooling. You on the other hand have to learn to love who you are, that is very sexy in a lady. If you can get past the fact that he may look every now and than w out feeling insecure about it you'll be great. Just cause a man is in a relationship doesn't mean he stops seeing other women as attractive. My girlfriend knows this, I know this w her as well. She can make a comment about how handsome someone is and I can agree, but it doesn't bother me. Maybe because I'm a male and I understand this more as far as human nature and the attraction of other people, so long as it's not acted upon.

[OjosOscuros2]

I think it's wrong if he's liking the ones where the girl is clearly asking for attention. It's one thing to look and think that the person is attractive but when people "like" things on social media that's clearly taking it into an interactive level. It's something so simple that he can refrain from doing and at the same time stop encouraging attention-whores.

[Anonymous]

If the girls are his friend or in his friend list as familiar people then what's the harm? Wouldn't you like pictures of your male friends or acquaintances? Relax, it's normal as l9ng as they're not explicit pictures of random chicks!

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[xHoneyxBeex]

I don't think it's necessarily right or wrong. It just depends on the type of picture and that persons relationship with them. I wouldn't automatically be upset or put off by it. It's just social media. If you feel like there is more going on though then of course, you can bring up your concerns to him and talk about it.

[Kiran04]

The real question to ask here is, do you want to become the social media stalker/police? Oh no, other girls are sexy. Well, that's life. If he isn't posting inappropriate comments or constantly talking about them then I don't see this as something to worry about. Your boyfriend will always be looking at other girls. That's not because he doesn't like you. It's because other girls are nice to look at. I bet you look at nice looking men too. Congratulations. You're human. Move along.

[Cryostatic]

"Liking" a picture is perfectly fine.

Posting "Wow, you're so fucking hot. You're so much hotter than my girlfriend. I'm gonna think about you while I'm with her" as a comment is not.

[bente2]

Because they can't think another person is attractive? If they think you're still the one they want to be with, who cares? Stop being so unsure about yourself.

[desidoll]

If it was just a like 'click' I wouldn't be bothered by it. Unless if he commented something or wrote a compliment about her then I'd get upset.

[Jimmer]

Do you like photos that your male friends post?

It's only liking photos that friends post (male or female) what's the bloody problem, unless you have proof that he's cheating then that's understandable

[That0neGuy]

It's completely normal, how would you react if you caught him watching porn?

[Princeofanons]

Don't be alarmed unless he gives you other reasons to be cautious

[Prof_Don]

Nothing wrong with liking a pic, don't overblow this

[StickStickity13]

Is your boyfriend the only human you find attractive?

[HeyyBoiz]

If he is liking every one of a friend's pictures, then it's fine. But if he is liking every picture of any girl with less-than-normal clothes on...

[JasonLincoln]

Wrong, If I were you I would be hurt so much.

[fauchelevent]

I don't see an issue with it.

[DrTruth]

Insecurity. Common with young adults.