My boyfriend almost died?

[Anonymous]

Here goes. Me an my boyfriend have been together for a year. We live together. Yesterday we got in an argument because he lied about something. And I got angry and told him that I didn't want to ve with him anymore. He begged me not too leave. I was so upset I walked Into my bedroom and tried to go to asleep and ignore him. But then I kept hearing g choking and gasping sounds In our guest room. And I checked , and he had hung himself with a rope onto the closet. And his face was blue and he was convulsing so I panickly tried to unripe him as fast as I could :( When I did his eyes were rolled back and he had pees himself all over. I was crying and trying to shake him. He finally opened his eyes and I hugged him. I told him it was okay and that I wasn't gonna leave him :( thinking back to it all, I feel so deveatated. I can't get the images out of my head. It was so scary :((( he is fine now. He currently is playing video games like nothing ever happened yesterday. What should I do? How should I be reacting? How should I feel? :(((((

[Anonymous]

he is using that to control you/keep you/ keep the relationship. but it is dangerous, serious and scary, mentally ill. you need to take the game away and able to talk to him. something is not right here.
a fight should not caused him to try to hang himself. imagine if you have walked out the door to catch some air. he would have died. and what would happened next time you two get into disagreement again?
like others said, he needs help. you need to tell his family/close freinds and get him to a shrink or call the cops...

[WillowTree]

Your boyfriend needs counseling. You shouldn't be blackmailed or pressured into staying in relationship you're not happy in. It's not your responsibility to keep him from harming himself. You need to tell his family and get their help to get him help. None of this is your fault.

[LunaLawliet]

He doesn't sound very stable... at all.
I can't really tell you how you should feel. That sort of thing comes naturally. If you love him and want to stay with him, you're probably going to have to not fight with him... ever. He'll probably get triggered.

[madhatters4]

it's terrible that he did this. but i think it stinks to feel like you have to be in a relationship because the person is going to hurt themselves otherwise.

to go this far suggests that your boyfriend really needs to get into some therapy because hanging yourself simply isn't an appropriate or healthy reaction to strife in a relationship.

[CisScum]

Probably call in people to get him some mental help, jesus. Normal people don't try to kill themselves right away after a break up. Especially hang themselves...

Not to be rude at all, but your boyfriend has problems that need fixing and that was a huge cry for help.

[Anonymous]

Your boyfriend needs to seek help from a therapist or mental health specialist, and you need to get out of that toxic relationship. You can't fix his psychological problems; he has to do that himself (with some professional help of course).

[kaitlyncookie]

He needs to see a psychiatrist I have been to one it is very helpful and you should tell his closest guy friend to keep an eye on him or you're mom for some advice

[singlebee]

Wtf? That's horrible...
You shouldn't say things like that if he is so suicidal like that

[Zzzzzz111]

Well he loves you and that's good but I have to say that was extreme

[Petr1992]

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