My boyfriend almost killed meee?

Question

OK, so I started dating this guy about three months ago he's been a sweetheart treated me right, we had small arguments once in a while about the little issues, but it wasn't anything really big, so a couple days ago me and him went to the beach and on our way from the beach we ended up having a small argument in the car which is my car by the way , but at the time he was driving, as the argument got heated, he pulled up to a gas station and that's when I step out of the car to let things cool down, he started trying to force me back in the car when I denied and that's when he started to go crazy. He broke my phone. He messed up my car, and he choked me till I literally almost passed out. He pulled my hair while he was calling me all type of names telling me he's going to kill me. I had clothes on which he ripped all off of me, I had to run for my life because he kept on choking me and hurting me mind you I was butt naked at a public gas station i ran across the street to another gas station I left my car with him. Where got some help to get to my house so turn to find out he had got laced that night with fentanyl, and he claimed that he don't remember anything from that night. I told him what happened and I told him it was very traumatizing to me because I could've died, and he could've killed me so now he's asking for forgiveness. He's telling me that it wasn't him that did it, telling me that he got laced, saying that he wasn't in his right mind, I don't know how to deal with this situation I mean yeah I do understand that he was laced with drugs but I feel as if I can never look at him the same anymore.

Screenwriter · Accepted Answer

This man has a drug problem. Call the police and file charges against him. It WAS him who attacked you. HE took the drugs that caused his behavior. If he did this once, he will do it again. What he did was assault you. Get away from him and file a restraining order.

Block him on all media and tell him to leave you alone. It's a good thing this. has happened before you got too involved. This cancels anything good about him. Talk to a counselor about your trauma and get far, far away from this problem.

PBandJ_Nerd · Accepted Answer

Runaway from him as fast as you possibly can and never look back. I wouldn't ever stay alone though, go to your parents or at a friends for safety in the meantime. Just don't tell him where you're at if he asks. But you need to report him to the police, before he hurts anybody else. Or finds you for that matter (don't want that).

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Accepted Answer

Yeah, yeah, yeah, typical supper sweet fake nice guy that treats you super nice and says all the sweet right things at the beginning to gain your trust and affection then the demon in them eventually comes out and they blame the person or something else for their conduct and ask for forgiveness and say they won't do it again blah blah blah.

Listen, you better wise up. Tell this guy to get out of your life because there might not be a next time for you to recover because you will be dead.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

You didn’t call the cops? What the hell. You need to immediately call the cops. You know if he would do that to someone he supposedly cares for imagine what he would do to someone else.

You can forgive. That doesn’t mean you need to let someone back into your life. That man is a wolf in sheeps clothing. Once someone shows their true nature. You never let them back in

Apple1996 · Answer

Omg this guy is seriously dangerous 😳

Levin · Answer

Should be speaking in terms of ex. Guy is seriously dangerous. Don't want to end up as one of those killed girls on the news.

Although it's interesting to hear him talk. Wasn't him, was his drug. I mean, talk about not taking responsibility.

YesterdaysChild · Answer

Who are you Gabby Petito's ghost? Your story sounds the same.

ColHathi · Answer

Whether he's lying or not about the fentanyl or not remembering (I would imagine he's very likely lying), I would argue that that was still very much himself, and the fact that he's trying to pretend it wasn't him does nothing to help his case. I refuse to believe that drugs would just turn you into somebody completely different like that.

I think you'll be in serious danger if you stay with him.

Anonymous · Answer

Please don’t ever go back to him ever! Never again! Get a restraining order if he doesn’t leave you alone. Once physical abuse starts it only gets worse from here on. I had an ex beat me while drunk and the next day he was literally on his knees begging me to forgive him, he told me how much he loved me bla bla bla. I stayed 3 years!! Don’t make the same mistake. Next time you could lose your life. Please just leave!!! Get a restraining order if needed but just don’t even think for a second to give him another chance!! You’re young, you’re only 23, you have the rest of your life ahead of you!

Amy10223 · Answer

I hope by now, he is your ex, and not your boyfriend. I would get a restraining order after you tell police what happened to you, if you have not done it already. Please stay safe.

Iron_Man · Answer

There’s no excuse for that I don’t care what he’s on a man knows what he’s doing and what he’s not doing did you get your car back? Did you cover yourself when you got into a strangers car?

Drumlin2001 · Answer

Sorry, having a dumb moment. He's claiming someone gave him the drugs without his knowledge? Or he took the drugs himself?

Anonymous · Answer

What is the question? Of course you need to report and leave him. Especially since this is only 3 months into the relationship. You don't want to wait around for what he does next.

Staximus · Answer

Fentanyl makes people pass out, not try to kill people. Get the hell away from that guy and call the cops and press charges. If you stay with that guy he's probably going to kill you. Don't be a fucking idiot

slatyb · Answer

He's dangerous and out of control. Block him and do not respond to him under any circumstances. Consider filing charges.

sawno · Answer

Never look at him the same anymore? Get that guy arrested already.

ArrowheadSW · Answer

Run like the wind. Report him to the police and file charges.

Lisia · Answer

Omg wtf 😳 I'm sorry that happened to you.. wtf is wrong with him

BoopBoopBeep · Answer

You're going to need to get some professional help for that one.

ChicoFromThe305 · Answer

That dude needs to get his ass beat by someone no lie

exitseven · Answer

What was laced with drugs? A tunafish sandwich?

Tim2nice · Answer

You didn’t report him to the police? Stay away from him. Next time you might die

Anonymous · Answer

Anytime you start with "my boyfriend almost killed me" serious consideration needs to be given to the lack of continuation of the relationship

Minahh · Answer

These fucking men. Heck fucking monsters. Dump his ass immediately and report.

HappyWoman34 · Answer

If he’s done it once, he’ll do it again.

spartan55 · Answer

So, no one called the cops?

serenalovesramen · Answer

Broski need to be humbled

TiaNour · Answer

I would’ve beat his ass

LavLavLuv · Answer

😳😳😳🤯 Yeet him to mars

dudeinohio · Answer

Call police. Get away from him permanently

Lokiion · Answer

That’s probably his real nature

LiamJHayden · Answer

TRO and end it.

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