You need to understand that he doesn't necessarily get to choose his work hours, and he didn't intend to keep you up or upset you by doing his job.
But he needs to understand that you were disappointed and worried and you just want to spend time with him.
Yes, you need to talk this out. Give him a little time to cool off, then bring it up in a calm, tactful way. Avoid being accusatory, since that will make him defensive and inhibit communication. Tell him that you're sorry if you stressed him out, and you understand that he was working hard and it wasn't his fault he had a late night. Explain that you were just disappointed because you wanted to spend time with him, and it was frustrating that the plans changed- even though you understand that it wasn't his fault. See what he has to say. It's understandable that he got stressed out by the situation, but ultimately he needs to respect your feelings too and talk things out rather than running off with his friends.
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God the guy wants to play with his friends and you go crazy mad because wants to play dungeon and dragons? Men need their time with there fellow guys. Just dump the guy, I'm sure he'd be more happy with some other girl. And if not he'll just come crawling back
How was he rude and disrespectful when you are the one getting mad at him coming home at a late hour?
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i think you need to cut him some slack. i understand being frustrated but you have to look at it from a broader perspective in terms of how big of an issue is it really
Dude works his ass off until 2:30am and you get mad at him.
You're the rude and disrespectful one. Go ahead and break up with him, he deserves better.So you are gonna break because of that he said one time really?
Why not deal with your anger and solve the problemLet him loot some dungeons. The best stress relief there is. besides, they say "Dragon Slayer in the streets, Pussy Slayer in the sheets"
It is rude but you can talk about it.
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