Boyfriend creeps on other girls' instagram?

[llochew]

my boyfriend and i've been together for over 1 year. Our relationship is great he makes me happy and tells me everyday tthat he loves me. He even told me that he wants to get married and have children. However, I found out that he has been stalking random girls on instagram. Some pics are innocent others are very provocative. I actually don't mind him looking at nudes or other sexual images. What frustrates me is that he constantly looks at particular list of girls who are all very attractive (these girls don't post any revealing pics). He doesn't follow these girls, like or write comments on their instagram but I don't understand why he needs to keep looking at these group of girls. Whenever I ask him about this he tries to avoid or prevaricate the conversation. He says he loves me but I'm confused. Why would he do this if he loves me? Or am i being too petty and insecure? Please help!

[natured]

A man is an observer, he likes to CHECK OUT, he likes to SEE, eyes of a man usually see WIDER, this does not mean he is not into you, but i think you should accept the fact that whenever you turn around he will turn the other way to check out another girls ass...
Guess what?
Everyone does that :) only if somebody does not admit it, but at some point all the guys do it...
You should maybe get his trust in this and comment on girls TOGETHER, that's what i do with my man, and honestly it added some little glitter into our relationship, because we are being open about it.

When you are with your sisters, girlfriends, aunts or whoever, don't you talk about MEN and who is hot and who is not?
It's normal and it's innocent, don't freak out about it, otherwise you will scare him away. Because overall he looks like he LOVES YOU, so it's not worth it loosing him because of this.

Good luck <3

[caligirl03]

How often does he look up these girls? Are any of them his actual friends? People will often search tons of random people on a whim on social media, more often than not out of boredom without any particular reason or meaning attached to it.

[llochew]

none of them are actual friends but he looks up these girls everyday that's what bothers me the most...

[caligirl03]

Are they the same girls over and over? And are they girls that live close by?

[truthbeknown]

Guys look. That is what we do. I think it is written in our DNA to have as many offspring as possible with as many women as possible to ensure the passing the genes. That is why we look and like variety. Like natured said, it doesn't mean we intend to cheat. It is sorta like owning a nice sports car. We like cars and like to see other cars, but that doesn't mean we want to sell ours and buy something else, we just like cars! See?

[Prof_Don]

He's just looking, as long as he isn't meeting her in person this shouldn't be an issue.