Boyfriend thinks another girl is cute?

[Anonymous]

I was talking to my boyfriend about a girl I went to school with and I sent a picture of her. He said she was cute and he enjoyed looking at her.
How do you feel about your boyfriend or girlfriend thinking someone else is cute? Do you think they should only have eyes for you? Or is this normal to find other people cute?

[hk2261]

I think its normal for you to be chatting with your boyfriend about your guys' friends be like "oh yeah shes/hes good looking " but what i find weird is that he said he enjoyed looking at her (kinda creepy in general, but also insensitive to your feelings). Boys watch porn and fantasize or whatever (not saying girls dont), but that i understand your insecurity when you're speaking about him finding someone you actually know being his type. Its different when its about Jennifer Aniston or Mila Kunis because you know hell probably never meet them, and you think zac efron is hot. Its a harder pill to swallow when he's friends with her on fb or you guys go out together.

[Anonymous]

I think its normal and all that but FUCK!!!

I hate it soooo damn much, why does he have to talk about other women in front of me? Like dude, i get it. I have eyes as well and i can see that she's cute, hot, sexy etc etc..
Although i dont show much emotion and shrug it off or agree with you with my best acting abilities. It does not mean that im not on fire on the inside." Your fucking mine so shut the fuck up and dont talk about other women in front of me"

if only i had the guts to say that out loud.
Im such a scardy cat!
Sighs* How embarrassing~

[karahiri]

they always will. it's something you have to accept.

[SomeGuy37]

Women are the same, but maybe less obvious!! I've had several GFs over the years that like certain 'looks' or hair styles, or beards, or whatever. Women usually find some trait attractive in other men, and want their man to be more like that (That's why they try to change you when you get serious!)
Guys maybe feel the same, but express it badly, making women jealous and upset, thinking they want THAT girl, not you.
I've made the mistake, and had the agruments, but ultimately, when I could get through her natural urge to go to the 'cheating' and 'jealousy' we found a way to share likes, and make what we had better!

[GraveTruth]

Sorry, but there is no way in the world that a guy will never think anyone else is attractive.

He can lie to you if you want though.

[JSmuve]

Were you really expecting the fact that he's dating you means that all of a sudden all the women in the world now look like trolls to him? That there isn't a single other girl out there that is remotely attractive, not even in a platonic "she's pretty but I'm not really interested" way? You can't possibly be that naive.

[redlif3]

it is normal to find other people cute. just don't touch.

[rocketbebe]

Do you find other guys 'cute"?