I was on a trip with my boyfriend and his friends & there was one very girl that he flirted with a few times (she is very pretty and all guys were flirty with her so it didn’t bother me thaaat much, seemed innocent but I could tell he’s attracted to her).
Two weeks later, we are back home, and he receives FaceTime call. He acts quite nervous so I asked him who called him and he told me it was his father. I later checked his phone and saw it was the pretty girl from the trip.
Does he like her? Is that why he is hiding it from me or what is going on?
He could’ve easily said it was just her calling had he had nothing to hide right?
also to be clear; I know for a fact they aren’t having an affair - but could it be that he’s cheating emotionally on me with her?
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Of course he likes her. In your mind yes he could have just told you. Sounds simple enough. But it isn’t. I’m not defending him cause if it was just some girl he barely met why does she have his number? Unless they were friends to begin w. I say it should be that easy to say yes but you know damn well as do other women that you’re not just going to say ok. You’re going to grill him. You’re going to ask a million questions. That’s why men keep quite about a lot of things. Because rather than talk to him about something he may have done wrong, you talk at him. You don’t listen. You go off. Scolding him. He knows he fucked up if he did, doesn’t need you scolding him, etc, etc. that’s why we just keep quite. Even if he wasn’t interested in her and she was interested in him you’d still interrogate him.
Yes he does shame on him cheater