I'm Scared Of My Boyfriend Going To College?

[Anonymous]

We've only been dating for a total of three moths, and in a couple months, he'll be going to college. He'll still be around because it's not far, but I'm getting a bit scared because everyone always talks about how relationships almost always end once one of you hits college, since everyone only thinks they're limited to people at their school. Him and I attend different schools, but I'm still fearful of the whole college thing. I've been told that in college, there's almost a 100% chance that they find someone else... that's super depressing. Him and I clicked instantly when we met, and we've been having fun and have been glad to be apart of each other's lives for the short while we've been together... I don't want this to be short.

[SteppingOnRoses]

I think each situation is unique.

If you go into it thinking like that. then for sure it will go wrong.

Just believe in what you have and do your best. It is all really that anybody can do.

And that 100% theory... I dont believe it to be true. Just discuss things with your boyfriend and how does he feel about your changing situation.

Best of luck.

[ImACowgirl]

If he loves you then he won't be looking for someone else. If you have doubts and feelings that he will (like intuition) then he probably will. Do you trust him? Can he be trusted?

[max_spy]

nothing to worry about. don't listen to others. if he really loves you he wouldn't go for others

[Anonymous]

In college or later on, it doesn't matter, he will eventually find someone to replace you.

[Anonymous]

Talk to him about it