Booty Call wants to sleepover?

[Anonymous]

I met this guy at a frat party and since then we've been hooking up with each other every week. I think that we both have this mutual understanding that we don't want anything serious but recently he has been wanting to sleepover after a booty call. Should I be worried cause I was told that booty calls should never sleepover? I'm scared that he wants something serious.

[AskAlthea]

If you both want it to just stay a booty call/fuck buddies, you HAVE to stick to the rules, sleeping over (and the cuddling) create an environment favorable for allowing emotion and attachment to grow. Sure, there is a chance he could sleep over and you guys manage to not get attached, but why take the risk. Talk things through, make sure he is aware that you don't want anything serious, you say you think there's a mutual understanding but you are worried he wants something more serious, it sounds like the mutual understanding was assumed and never confirmed.

[GraveTruth]

I never knew people with low self value have set rules with sleeping with random people.

Sure, if he sleeps over one of your could possibly invest something emotionally and become human. Can't have that!!!

[Chico_brah]

Found a pic of OP and her dude building a fort together.
www.scholastic.com/.../forts.gif

[IdkSomethingRandom]

Male booty call. Love it.

I'd sleep over as a booty call. I'm a cuddler.

[Anonymous]

Don't give in