He cried after sex?

[Anonymous]

We had sex and after it he was trying to cuddle me I said I had to go, got dressed and left. I got back inside of the room a couple seconds later to give him a kiss and he was crying. I was so confused but didn't stay because that's not the nature of our relationship.
So why do you think he was crying? should I stop seeing him?

[Nik1hil]

I have heard that before
Some people have this after sex sensitivity crying thing

Watch TV show desperate housewives in it husband of bree van de Kamp
Reveals that her husband Rex van de Kamp cries after sex.

It isn't you! It him probably,
Just talk to him give him time try to help him so he can put those feelings in words and you can understand it.
Don't worry I have come across similar question an yr ago

[dogbert444]

Guys have terrific emotional release after making love. I don't think it was just "sex" for him. In that moment, he needed to hold you in his arms. He obviously felt so alone in those few seconds.

I think you hurt him bad. THAT is how I would feel.

[Asker]

Wasn't my intention to hurt him I thought he was ok with just sex, should I stop seeing him? I really like him but I don't have more to offer at the moment that's not what I'm looking for.

[dogbert444]

Don't need to finish it. All he needs is a few minutes cuddle afterwards. Is that too much to ask? Only you know the answer to that.

[Asker]

I don't wanna lead him on. I sound horrible but I just want sex. No attachments, no cuddles.

[dogbert444]

Well, what can I say. You have to do what you think is best.

[Asker]

Anyways thank you so much for your help

[dogbert444]

Always welcome!

[dogbert444]

Thanks for MHG!

[Kat203]

I've never experienced a guy crying after sex. kind of weird, but maybe he's too sensitive, and you should stop whatever you 2 are doing if your not really into him. Im kind of blunt so I'd prob would sound rude about it but try saying it nicely that this not going to workout.

[bc1989]

ask him, I'd ask by text just something like "why were you upset the other day?" then it won't embarrass him in person if he gets emotional again

[Asker]

I think I will do that... I'm just scared to deal with his emotions I guess

[bc1989]

I think I'd feel the same in your situation. All the best x

[Sabinath]

I have 4 reasons.

1. He may have fell in love with you. he doesn't know how to tell you.

2. He felt rejected when you didn't wanna cuddle. it may have given him a feel that he was just sex and nothing.

3. He wasn't satisfied or he didn't think he satisfied you. he may have thought he did really bad that you didn't want to cuddle.

4. He may have had a wife or girlfriend or maybe feelings for someone else and he regretted doing this.

[LightningXombat1]

I feel he must've felt low on the feeling you left... like the usual. Maybe he wants to spice things up... Or maybe he wanted to ask you out and you just left... There could be many reasons. the only way to find out is to go ask him

[meatballs21]

That's a little strange, I've never heard of that before.

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[madhatters4]

i would've just asked but i imagine it was just an response to heightened emotions he was feeling

[DeStorm_108]

Depends on where you wanted to go, you can just leave that makes it look like you are just using him

[Asker]

I have my personal life I shouldn't have to explain my next move when we are not dating. This is supposed to be fun and easy

[DeStorm_108]

to me , it doesn't feel rite

[Asker]

Me leaving?

[DeStorm_108]

Yes in a way. Although I don't know all the details , this is my honest opinion to what I can think of

[Asker]

thanks for your opinion

[Renzo11]

Maybe he wants more. Maybe he's feeling used. Talk to him about it

[Anonymous]

My guess would be that He might want to have a real relationship with you but feels like you will not want the same thing, honestly it can be so many different things but if you know someone, you should be able to guess it

[Asker]

I know his as a friend not as a lover he never showed such a stong emotion before. Like we talk besides sex but he never showed a strong emotion related to me, he always seemed to be fine with our status and that's why things worked you know

[Dr_Latex_McPeggin]

Maybe he felt that you used him and way hoping it was more than a bump and run.

[Asker]

What do I do now? I didn't mean to hurt him

[Dr_Latex_McPeggin]

I would sit down and talk to him and ask him what happened and go from there.

[Asker]

thank you

[eagle1951]

he has feelings for you and wanted to cuddle. he felt rejected

[Asker]

But it never seemed to be a problem the other times I don't get it

[eagle1951]

maybe he was needing it that time

[AleDeEurope]

Damn... are you that bad? :/

[Asker]

How am I bad?

[AleDeEurope]

He's crying

[Asker]

And how does that makes me bad?

[AleDeEurope]

Maybe he feels bad because he has reached rock bottom?

[Asker]

You're confusing me even more.

[Eternallylucky]

Ok this guy is strange

[Asker]

Why?

[dogbert444]

No, he isn't. It's a natural reaction when the level of "love" between two people is way out of balance. He seems to care more for her than she does of him. To her, he IS just a fuck buddy.

[Eternallylucky]

@dogbert444 fuck buddies always act tough like a cold hearted animal. That's why I'd say he is strange It was totally unexpected.

[Eternallylucky]

@dogbert444 To me, yes he is strange. It's just hard animal fuck. :P nothing more. if people can't understand the nature of just a hard fuck then it's stupid to do it anyway and then get all confused like a mellow fellow.

[lovelyhoneybones]

He probably has caught feelings.

[Anonymous]

Was he virgin?

[Asker]

He wasn't

[Opinion Owner]

It happens to some guys because during sex hormones release and it causes happiness and he might be some what irritated or frustrated before sex (may be some other reason)

Crying is mixed emotion which very few people know. Most of time we only associate crying with pain but it is mixed emotion.

You denied to cuddle so it triggered the irritation which he might be having in his mind. It was not your fault at all. It happens with very few people and rare but studies show that nothing is wrong in it.

It happens and if you ask him he might also not knowing the reason of it.

Being a student of psychology I know this fact so if you want to ask him you can ask him but I think he would avoid it or feel embraced to answer.

And asked why he was virgin because some virgin feel guilty about it after doing it.

Hope it helps.

[LastNightmare]

he must be thinking you're using him

[Asker]

Really? I don't know how to deal with the situation tbh.

[LastNightmare]

seems like he's feeling cheated by you

[Asuna_Yuki_XD]

He is probably sad that you left🤷‍♀️

[karahiri]

Dump this weirdo.

[Asker]

Being emotional makes him a weirdo?

[karahiri]

Yep. It does.

[Asker]

Alright thanks

[GirlThatDraws]

Aww that makes me feel sad.

[Anonymous]

You didn't make him cum probably.

[Asker]

You're wrong.

[LordSpider]

He's in love with you

[Anonymous]

Some people cry some laugh after sex

[Anonymous]

he didn't want you to leave probably

[Asker]

I always leave or ask him to leave so what was different this time?

[Opinion Owner]

You should talk with him about It so he will see that you care about him

[Anonymous]

You burned him.

[Asker]

How?

[Opinion Owner]

His pecker.

[Poppykate]

I agree! You hurt him! You should have cuddled him. Your relationship might not be 'like that'. But he was crying. Poor boy!

[Opinion Owner]

@Poppykate Yes, Poppykate - she get's it. You hurt that guy. He's just afraid to tell'ya.