As someone who has been victimized by gold diggers I think this is completely false! 😂 I have a what's mine is mine and what's yours is yours mentality because of guys using me for money. Of course one of my all about their man all the time friends posted it on Facebook. 😂😂 Ladies who are in relationships do you do stuff like this for your man and he doesn't take it for granted? (vise versa for guys) Guys would you appreciate it if a woman was like this without taking her for granted?
What Do You Think About Women Who "Spoil Their Man?"?
Well I was having a conversation with my boyfriend about mobile phones. I guess he disliked the current phone he got (which is still brand new). The software wasn't fast enough. I offered to get him the phone he wanted but he didn't want to. He said "My phone works fine. It's still new"
But still you know lol I want him to be able to have nice things too 😋 Hmm maybe for a birthday present? A surprise? (Well that's if he doesn't read this comment lolol)
But I do like to spoil him. I didn't know what size jumper he wears and I was trying to ask him indirectly so he didn't know (but that failed) haha at least I know his size now.
I often see things at the mall that I feel like he would either 1. Like or 2 look good in. So maybe I'll just buy it for him and send it to him during Christmas
I used to do that too with my last boyfriend. I would just see stuff in the mall that he would like and get it for him because I really did like him at the time, but he took that for granted.
I think it should all be done in a private way, people posting it on social media is like they're asking to be applauded for what they are doing. It's your life, spoil them if you want but splashing it on social media and telling people just makes it look like your wanting to get attention for it
I make more money than my boyfriend so I pay for more things and I guess you can call that spoiling him. But the truth is, while I handle things financially, he does so much more for me. Money is money. It can always be earned. But the things he does for me is priceless.
I think its never a good idea to put your partner on a pedestal by spoling them constantly, because they will feel entitled and subconsciously treat you like a door mat. I think its better for couples to occasionally spoil each other but appreciate each other more often in little ways like listening or encourage each other when their flaws get the better of them etc.
I tend to spoil my girlfriends but I would love to find a women that takes care/spoils me like this I would be eating her out anytime she asked well if I had a girl I would be going down all day regardless I'd pamper
I think it's best if both people pay for their own stuff, but it doesn't hurt to spoil the other person sometimes. It's pretty easy to tell when someone is using you for money.
Relationships are a two way street. Gifts, dates, etc. should go both ways. But do I hand my boyfriend gas money and escort him to the barber shop? No. He's my boyfriend, not my son.
I've never really understood the practice of giving money to your SO... you're not their grandparent lol. Unless it's money for shared groceries or something.
I don't know of many male gold diggers. Most men seem to work for what they have in life. I didn't even know this was a thing maybe I need to consider this. lol
There are gold digging men. I dated one before and it's just fucking ridiculous. I sacrificed so much and he barely lifted a finger. Sex was even worse. 😂😂😂
i think in this modern stressful day and age it is no longer a luxury to spoil your partner. that goes for both men and women. i feel that many relationships are destroyed due to all the stress of modern life.
I don't think so either... and when I did try the treating thing with me exes they felt entitled to it just because they gave me dick like I can't get that from any dude I meet.
Entitled? Funny.. Go on any dating app and you can get laid in 10 min, probably less. What make's his so special 😂 I usually take care of my partner, so I wouldn't mind a treat now and then. But I am a grown ass man, I can handle my hair and gas.
Well I did like him beyond his dick at the time lol but he would say dumb shit like that and I would tell him his dick isn't the only one in the world. I guess he didn't like that 😂😂
At the end of of the day i am a man an whatever needs to be done i do whats in my power 2 make it possible bt i by no means need a woman 2 spoil me that is solely my position..
Yea I do understand... I know a few girls that have the same issue. They just don't know what a good relationship is so they think what they have is good... but in fact it's garbage compare to what's really good
Sometime I think that women might stay with their shitty boyfriends because It gives them purpose... as in something to always have to work towards.. know what I mean?
Cause some prefer to be in a shitty relationship versus being alone... they keep saying they can't find someone good so they just settle for whatever is there
defiantly understanble... but also keep in mind that means your soul isn't coming to men with a clean slate... it's coming with negative energy. That in itself is a perpetuating cycle for more bad relationships even if that's not what you want
You have to no matter what always give the next guy a fair chance... don't punish him for the past guy's mistakes
I think if you pick up a shitty vibe it should be explored a little and if it's still there, next! don't waste your time on dumbasses
But at the same time come to it with open arms as a new start... almost like a coin flip. The second time you flip a coin you can get heads or tails but the first flip has nothing To do with the second coin flip
I love to spoil my man. But I start becoming salty if he doesn't spoil me back lol... so now I'm a little hesitant to spoil him, should be give and take I guess then it's all good if it's equal
I see no problem. If the one that gives, likes giving, and the one receiving likes receiving, then I don't think it matters what order the genders are in.
Phew dodged a bullet there hahahha But that sounds like a real women... sure she expects a real man but in return she sounds like a real women... im sure you have lots of love to give
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