In short, myself. I don't look to anyone else for emotional security because you can only rely on people so far. Life changes, tastes change, moods change and those changes can change people and relationships. Permanence is always the lower odds outcome. The greater odds are that you will lose the person you have, sooner or later. I'm not saying it will necessarily happen, just that many things have to be right for something to last and the more things that need to be right the lower the odds.
I give myself my security, regardless of what anyone else does. I'll be ok either way, I live my life for my own reasons and anyone who joins me is a bonus.
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when she cares about things like : deep intimacy, Trust, Romance, making sacrifices, compromises, etc more than just sex.
having a partner who is upfront and verbal about their feelings. like i need to hear that they are only seeing me and that they feel good about the relationship. affection in general.
Verbal reassurance and sweet stuff. Also someone I feel like I can trust blindly. Which I have and I'm very thankful for.
when you can love and feel loved. communication and compromise. being equals and overall support given by each other.
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Happiness is not always a guarantee or a reason to stay in a relationship. If you're in a long enough relationship, there will be times of unhappiness. To leave a person due to unhappiness after pledging to be with them for life, better or worse, just to suit how that person feels is very selfish.
In my world communication is key when it comes to feeling secure and trusting each other in a relationship.
Someone who shows genuine attachment to me. They depend on me sometimes, want to be around me and miss me when I am gone.
~JSmithReciprocity, with that comes a reciprocal love, respect, trust, then there is the aknowledgement and acceptance of "who I am". Without those two elements I believe there is no future in a relationship.
consistency, reciprocity, intimacy, chemistry, honesty, passion.
when he takes initiative first most of the time. that way i would know that im important for him
If my love languages are met and I feeel like o can rely on him to be my support system
love and care and being there when needed and even when not
when I tell them the truth of who I am, they do not see me as broken or weak. They still see me.
attention and kisses and a emotionally strong partner
i put a tracking device in my girlfriend ass :)
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Being able to blindly trust and rely.
when you know you are going to talk, she's gonna listen
Just don't lie to me and we good.😎
Be able to comuacate an meet each other half way
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