What makes you feel secure and emotionally safe in a relationship?

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InfoBot · Accepted Answer

In short, myself. I don't look to anyone else for emotional security because you can only rely on people so far. Life changes, tastes change, moods change and those changes can change people and relationships. Permanence is always the lower odds outcome. The greater odds are that you will lose the person you have, sooner or later. I'm not saying it will necessarily happen, just that many things have to be right for something to last and the more things that need to be right the lower the odds.

I give myself my security, regardless of what anyone else does. I'll be ok either way, I live my life for my own reasons and anyone who joins me is a bonus.

Decentguy · Accepted Answer

when she cares about things like : deep intimacy, Trust, Romance, making sacrifices, compromises, etc more than just sex.

Xoxoxooo123 · Accepted Answer

having a partner who is upfront and verbal about their feelings. like i need to hear that they are only seeing me and that they feel good about the relationship. affection in general.

BeautifulPromisesx · Accepted Answer

Verbal reassurance and sweet stuff. Also someone I feel like I can trust blindly. Which I have and I'm very thankful for.

Spongebob1235 · Accepted Answer

when you can love and feel loved. communication and compromise. being equals and overall support given by each other.

DoH_HOMER · Answer

Happiness is not always a guarantee or a reason to stay in a relationship. If you're in a long enough relationship, there will be times of unhappiness. To leave a person due to unhappiness after pledging to be with them for life, better or worse, just to suit how that person feels is very selfish.

Cloudy25 · Answer

In my world communication is key when it comes to feeling secure and trusting each other in a relationship.

JSmith925 · Answer

Someone who shows genuine attachment to me. They depend on me sometimes, want to be around me and miss me when I am gone. ~JSmith

DiegoO · Answer

Reciprocity, with that comes a reciprocal love, respect, trust, then there is the aknowledgement and acceptance of "who I am". Without those two elements I believe there is no future in a relationship.

MiaJay · Answer

consistency, reciprocity, intimacy, chemistry, honesty, passion.

Hityahardman · Answer

when he takes initiative first most of the time. that way i would know that im important for him

April10 · Answer

If my love languages are met and I feeel like o can rely on him to be my support system

Shahi88 · Answer

love and care and being there when needed and even when not

Justinaveragedude · Answer

when I tell them the truth of who I am, they do not see me as broken or weak. They still see me.

haooy · Answer

attention and kisses and a emotionally strong partner

NajemEddine · Answer

i put a tracking device in my girlfriend ass :)

Whatthefluff · Answer

Communication

JosyJosy · Answer

A loyal confident guy

FakeName123 · Answer

Being able to blindly trust and rely.

Razal · Answer

when you know you are going to talk, she's gonna listen

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

Just don't lie to me and we good.😎

Pizzalover101 · Answer

Be able to comuacate an meet each other half way

rgb008 · Answer

A seatbelt

Danny_dan92 · Answer

Support

Arya_Christ · Answer

conversation.

puto23 · Answer

maluma

Dr_Latex_McPeggin · Answer

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