What makes you feel secure in a relationship?

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Summeroflove · Accepted Answer

Someone that you can communicate with. I think humans feel insecure and ifs okay to have insecurities even if you’re overall a confident person. People who try to act like they don’t 9/10 are the most insecure people there is but they don’t want the world to see it because ironically enough even that’s a insecurity… being insecure is.

But being able to communicate with is very important to be able to ease one another’s minds. If someone tries communicating feelings and the other person gets too defensive then it’s very possible someone has every legitimate reason to feel the way they do especially if gaslighting starts.

Security should take time trust should take time for both people. There is that extreme of not trusting but having that level of trust shouldn’t be overnight. Some people have been hurt before and others may not have been hurt too badly yet so they jump head first into a relationship.

When someone starts outright being accusatory without evidence then that’s another story. But having a partner that you can communicate with and vice versa can communicate with you. Then that’s special.

YourExLover69 · Accepted Answer

Communication and chat with her as much as possible. Get time for each other no matter how busy I'm or she is.  Being straightforward and genuine with me. Expressing her feelings for me.

Love Doctor Brad · Accepted Answer

As your friendly neighborhood relationship coach, I'm here to sprinkle some love wisdom! Feeling secure in a relationship often comes from trust and open communication. When your partner respects your boundaries and supports your goals, it strengthens your bond. Be each other's cheerleader and avoid playing games – ghosting is out, lovebombing is in! Embrace the quirks, including the weird dance moves in the kitchen. 🕺 Security is about feeling truly seen and accepted. Keep those vibes positive! 💑✨

Finchie40 · Answer

Honesty and loyalty, being a priority to her the same way she is a priority to me, having great communication with each other and understanding each other as much as possible , knowing we have each others’ backs no matter what , words of affirmation , and intimacy and affection just comes naturally for each other , we both make each other feel valued and wanted and loved. Once I have that with a girl my heart belongs to her

Genie23 · Answer

When he's honest with me and we are able to talk things out no matter what.

Cormac995 · Answer

Routine affirmation. Frequent hugs, cuddles, kisses and a healthy sex life will make me feel good about the relationship and if I'm getting a healthy supply from my partner it's unlikely they're doing it with anyone else because normally that's a sign of cheating. If affection is a very prominent thing on a daily basis I know the relationship is healthy.

D_Bone_Steak · Answer

Her not knowing my real name or where I really live. She might think she knows me simply because I've taken her to one of my apartments, but she doesn't even know I only take side chicks and hookers there.  She doesn't even know I'm married :-/

dustybiker2 · Answer

Thoughtfulness. When a person cares about details it's proof they care about that thing. Person, car, sports team... it's a man thing.

WhitneySnow · Answer

Physical affection words of love and spending quality time with the person. Not necessarily in that order.

Nikki1989 · Answer

Knowing your partner will consistently follow through on their commitments, big or small.

LavenderHaze · Answer

Honesty and communication is key for me for feeling secure in a relationship

chrissykerdock · Answer

he gets hard for me and cums in my mouth often

Maybe_Maybe_not · Answer

When I'm convinced that she truly understands all I want to say and when I'm convinced that I truly understand all she wants to say.

HelpfulGirlll · Answer

total economic-and-social equity of course, darling, it's the only true foundation for a loving relationship.

Geo1970 · Answer

Love, understanding, whether that’s with family problems,(both sides or one), try not to argue.

Anonymous · Answer

Effort. S woman that puts no effort forth does not like (regardless of what she might say). When she doesn't, or stops putting forth effort. The writing is on the wall. It's time to move on.

Iron_Man · Answer

stability somebody thats stable and sticksby your side no matter what

foxsquirrell · Answer

That I believe that I will not be betrayed.

SamWinchester058 · Answer

Being allowed to meet her needs and her desiring to meet mine and following through.

princeofromance · Answer

Loyalty is key for me.

beenherebefore · Answer

Consistency is very important to me.

exitseven · Answer

Not worrying that I will get dumped.

Sam1133 · Answer

Her early morning blowjobs 🙃@Apple1996

Chocolatetwopointtwo · Answer

nothing, men r terrifying

Anonymous · Answer

I've never been in a relationship.

bddddd · Answer

Hope

Dongie · Answer

Geting lots of sex.

TonyMetal___86 · Answer

Honesty and trust

wkhan_87 · Answer

Trust

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