Whenever she mentions her partner, she is beaming with light over him and it is so inspiring that they have a bond so tight, but I know not everyone is so lucky.
Please share with us if you too have that same warm glow, or not so much, with your choice in partners... Please
YES! I have that same relationship with my current partner as Ms Priya!
Things are ok between us but maybe not as good as they could be
No, I am in a not so good relationship right now that I am hoping will get better before a breakup happens
I am not in a relationship right now but I hope to find a good one just like Ms Priya
I experienced a heart break of a break-up. It was no fun at all
OTHER, see my comments below, or just open the "Priya Perfect Relationship, or Not" Survey
Hard to answer this because you already know but wanted to say thank you for the mention. I appreciate it. It is true that we have a super strong relationship and bond. I am not sure I could have found a better match.
I have been on the other end of it though in my life. So, I sympathize with those that have not found the right guy or gal yet. Some never get that lucky. I wish there was a way for everyone to experience it. Sadly, that is not reality.
All you can do is hope and dream and when you find that special someone continue to build on the relationship every day. Making it stronger and stronger.
You're welcome and your story is certainly inspiring to others.
I hope that you have written a myTake advising others on ways to find that perfect match. If you did, I'm sure it's a good one and if not, I'm also sure that it would be a good one (hint, hint hint... lol)
@laurieluvsit Why thank you! That is a very good idea and perhaps next week I will start writing one as I have not. Hopefully, others will find some inspiration to get out that and get their “one”. Those that want it, deserve it!
I've got it good in my relationship right now, but with a 3mo I'm pretty spent. My SO works & I stay with the baby due to how expensive child care is. We try to keep things "alive" by using grandma (his mom) on the weekends so we can go on dates & have a romp (if we don't fall asleep during foreplay 😂). We're both happy & content. Of course we both have our days where we want to murder one another over the smallest, stupidest thing, but we're curled up with one another at the end of the day.
Me and my partner have been together near 4yrs. In the beginning, I'd say for about 2 years it was a fairytale, but now it's slowed down. Don't get me wrong, were still a great match and still have romantic moments but now he just works a lot so is always tired and sometimes I feel neglected. It's rare we get to go on a date or spend time together with just ourselves, I feel like I'm always the one pushing for it, unless I suggest or book something for us to do alone as a couple it doesn't happen anymore. This feeling is probably more amplified to me at the moment cos my two best friends recently got into relationships after years of trying to find someone and they're both in the honeymoon stage, constantly doing coupley things
I am glad to say that I am in a happy, healthy and relationship. However, this didn't just come falling from the sky. Often it is a game of trial and error. Prior to meeting my current significant other, I have experienced heartbreak, emotional abuse that come with narcisstic abuse. Like anything good in life, patience and gaining knowledge are key. Thanks to my prior experience that helped me in knowing what I do and don't want in a relationship, combined with learning from my own mistakes, is how I managed to choose my current significant other. Because I acted on the acquired knowledge. While many others out don't and thus they continue choosing the type of person that they aren't compatible with...
Sometimes you'll need to go through a storm to arrive at a beautiful destination.
Yes I do 😀. I’m fortunate that the right guy came along. He’s everything I could want in a relationship, a man with great character, a great sense of humor. We care deeply for each other. We have plenty in common, but just enough differences to make it interesting (and a good source of humor). I have plenty of dating horror stories before him, but he’s the real deal.
My wife and I have been together for over 27 years and married for over 25. Our relationship is very secure. I love her with all my heart and she loves me. There is mutual respect, regard, admiration and trust. We've built a great life and look forward to our futures together.
Naturally, there are occasional challenges, but we meet them together. Nevertheless, we have lots of fun together and the warm glow is always there.
Nope , I realize the girl I am with is very selfish and only really cares about herself , she doesn’t know how to remove selfishness , she expects me to remove selfishness for her but she can not for me , so I don’t know what is going to happen , I hate to say it but I am being honest , I am kind of keeping my options opened , meaning if a hot girl chases me I would probably go for it because right now I don’t feel wanted in my current relationship I feel used , I do t hate her but i feel her and I don’t see eye to eye on a lot of things ,
A all the way. We both feel so secure and almost 14 years in (10 years married this September), we are as cringy and clingy as you think on how secure we are with bank cards and accounts, money, passwords, emails, phones, drawrs, bathroom, toilet, sickness, happiness, awkwardness, ALL OF IT 🤣 we love it and we are not gonna slow down any time soon
Definitely so. I have trust and jealousy issues from my first relationship where I was mistreated and cheated on. When I started dating my new partner, he immediately put my finger print on his phone, let's me look at anything, showed me when girls would message him and tell me what he was going to reply. I was astounded that a man like that existed!
The trouble is we don't really have an institution of marriage anymore to secure our and our children's future by taking away the option of simply walking away that otherwise exist without it and now exist regardless.
This institution was abolished by easy no-fault divorce and re-definition in to oblivion. We as a people really need to reintroduce it.
Things are very happy in our household, but the glow of a new relationship is not burning quite as bright after nearly 20 years together between marriage and dating. I remember the wonderful feeling of being proposed to and getting married, we have to work very hard to find those moments at our stage in life and wedded bliss.
I would say i’d never get too comfortable but actually, i will. No matter who i date, i strive for comfort. And if we fail, we fail. At least i tried and then i can move on freely and happily
I always felt like I was constantly walking on eggshells, I had to constantly work to win approval and that if my career wasn't advancing fast enough she would leave me which is exactly what happened. It seems the only answer to how much should give was , more. That my only value was what I could provide now and in the future and that what I've provided in the past is immediately forgotten.
I am happy and joyful with my relationship 100%. We both in common in interest and like minded, give eachother respect and dignity. Our morality is freedom in society in positive direction.. Finally I am pleased with my relationship totally and completely.
I'm in a good relationship but I don't feel secure in it. When you start feeling secure in a relationship, you stop working to maintain the relationship, and that's a potentially dangerous thing to do.
Yes, my wife is my Comrade Number One and the one person I really and completely trust in the world. My best friend got a bit offended when I told her that, but that's how I feel.
Ever seen a baby kitten rolled up in a ball just sleeping? That's how I see my partner everytime I wake up with her head burried in my neck. How can I have doubts when I get to see that in the morning?
It's new but it's great.
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Not really, it’s been bothering me for the past couple of months though… I’m feeling stuck and I don’t know what to do. I tried talking to him about it but it always ends in an argument, everything else is awesome, he’s like my best friend and more but there are some things that he’s doing that’s making me insecure 😢
Yeah I’ve been trying to no avail… but this only makes me even more insecure lmao I’m gonna try talking to a therapist about my insecurities to make sure that it’s all not just in my head
I fully agree, he has a lot of unresolved anger but I don’t think he’s ready to deal with them yet. I wish I could just force him to go see a therapist lol
Cats got my tongue on this one... Do I feel secure in your relationship? I don't know. I just don't know anything anymore when it comes to my future and relationships. 😞💔 I think I've given up hope. 😭.
Just exhausted last night I suppose pulled a 2 shifts a morning and a night job between I quickly cooked for my family then checked up on a family member in a rehab (due to strokes & surgeries) before rushing to the 2nd job. running on empty then an ex said something mean and it pushed me into feeling quite blue just as I came across your question. Im feeling much better after some needed sleep 😊
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