No.
Everybody have different preferences when it comes to dating. Not being attracted to this feature isn't any different than preferring brunette more than blondes, preferring slim and fit people more than fats and prefer certain heights more.
I've my preferences too. I finds gingers generally a turn off and I prefer dating people with a South-European, Middle-eastern, Asian or South-American appearance. I'm very picky in Scandinavians because I considering common facial features many have "flaws" and I prefer not dating people with a typically West-African appearance too because I finds the facial features too tough looking.
It's only racist if you says "I don't want to date blue people because they're annoying" or "They're so stupid". It's not racist if it's just based on physical appearance.
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Its not racist. Its not fat shaming to find grossly overweight women unattractive. Its not homophobic of me to be grossed out at the thought of a dick in my mouth. But, contrary to you I find it erotic to lay in bed and see my black wife's dark skin touching mine. Asian women probably make the best wives on the planet but I am not overly attracted to them. Doesn't make me racist. You like what you like. Short, tall, skinny , fat, black, white, women, or men. Nobody shares your bedroom. Nobody deserves an explanation.
This is the reason why a lot of black women don't feel beautiful and hate their skin, hate themselves, and hate being black. Black is still not considered beautiful in the eyes of the media or society.
well, it's a preference. it's just like how i don't think I'd ever date a white guy, i'm perfectly fine with them I just don't have any interest dating them. so no, you're not racist :)
It's not racist, we all have a physical characteristic that we can't help but not be attracted to. It's only racist if you treat them less as people.
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it depends what you subconsciously think about them. It's a very controversial topic, as saying if they were lighter it wouldn't be so racist but to say they would be more attractive if they were white would be considered more racist. At the end of the day, it doesn't matter as it's your opinion and that's who you are. In a sense it's not racist as you may like dark skin as opposed to very dark skin, and you can't like everything in the world obviously
Trust me if you are wondering if something is racist then it is most likely not racist...
Personally I don't have type but I get people who likes specific physical traitsnot racist but more like a personal preference when it comes to the type of person you wanna date
now, if you would have said something like "i don't like/can't stand people who are of *** skin color' then yea that's racistNot really, it just doesn't appeal to you.. just like someone can find light skin unattractive.
Its not racist because you arnt doing it deliberately and its not hurting them and its better than putting them through a relationship while you arnt attracted to them
You don't own them anything. It's not like it's their human right to be loved by you. So no, it's not racist.
No, you simply do not find yourself attracted to it. We all have preferences. You're better off not asking if it's racist tho... anytime you open that door assumptions start to fly.
It's not racist if you just don't find something attractive. Racism sounds like "I don't date dark skinned people because it will make my bloodline impure"
I hate blondes and love brunettes, hate brown eyes and love blue ones, hate black skin and love white (its an example). Its not racism its preferring some kinds of girls!
Dude. Your fine. Like ice cream. You have your own flavor. But don't disrespect people. That's crossing the line.
it's not racist not everyone is gonna be attracted to the same things
its not racist. i dont really like dark skin either. its racist to not want to be their friends, insult them for it, or ignore them altogether
It's not racist, as long as you don't disrespect dark skinned persons
no I agree and I am African American it's just your opinion
I think that's more like a preference.
Everyone has a standard
it's a preference of yours not racism
No, it's a preference
ofc heart is important
its not racist. its just a sexual preference.
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