Guys: is it true once a girl touches your heart you will immediately start to fall for her?

[Anonymous]

i mean you can like a girl cause she seems really nice, great personality to kinda hang around and she's pretty but you might not necessarily love her.

But what if a girl gets to you emotionally, in the sense she helps you with the deeper things going on in your mind and helps you with your goals. Like she touches your heart and shows you things in life no one else has, which helps you make a major change in your life for the good. And when your with her you feel as if it is just you and her and nobody else.

Like it is her mind and heart that you like to spend time with , ya you might find her attractive too.

So if a girl gets to you in an emotional sense and sees you as being capable of greater things and helping you will you eventually fall in love with her and I don't mean like as in a crush but to point where you need her always by your side?

Sorry I know it was a long explanation

[Louise123]

You have met what sounds like a really wonderful person if she touches your heart - makes you a better person - challenges you - supports you - all of the above. If she has done those things and you can do the same for her - you have the potential to be a great couple. Great relationships are built on trust/honesty/respect/love. Sounds like that's what you are talking about. You won't NEED her by your side.. You will WANT her by your side. There is a difference. NEEDING means you can't survive without her - that's not healthy. WANTING her means she's special and makes a difference in your life to contribute to a happier you. A woman should complement you - not become you.. You see the difference? It may start out as a crush - attractiveness - physical attributes - chemistry.. but what will hold you together is compatibility and common goals. You sound like a very intelligent guy - Any woman would be extremely lucky to have you in her corner. But remember that that door swings both ways - and you should want the same things for HER. Hugz.

[Asker]

Hehe ima girl I'm just asking from the perspective to guys what if you met a girl like this, cause I'm straight I like boys sorry if it was confusing XD

but thanks for your input

[Louise123]

Sorry for the confusion.