How do you make a guy miss you?

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Ok so my boyfriend is gone camping with his family, and he isn't coming back until this Saturday. And I was planning on to see how long it will take him to message me when he get's back home.
So I need advice on how do I make my boyfriend miss me after when he gets back from camping. Like should I ignore his messages or should I just wait a certain amount of time to message him back? Any advice honestly

sunsweet · Accepted Answer

Be the type of person he can't live without. No amount of shallow tactics will keep him intrested because it's how you make him feel. If it doesn't feel good, if he feels like you're treating the realtionship oddly instead of building fun, deep, times he'll feel like there's just something missing. You need to be that person he likes being around so much that he'll do what he needs to keep you. Part of that is giving him some space. maybe text him a day after he gets back, just so he has time to unwind from the camping.

Don't hide your emotions of wanting to be with him either, just say it would be fun to hang out or whatever, no pressure. Be happy in your own life and genuinly enjoy it. If he sees that, he'll sence how clam you are and just how being with you would really add to his life. He'll want to be a part even more if there are no games and secrets. I have a really good realtionship article to direct you to if you're intrested.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Don't be silly. I'm sure he has already missed you while he was away. If he messages you as soon as he gets home reply so you can see him. why if you like him would you want to waste time doing that?

QueenofCups · Accepted Answer

Send a sexy text. He'll text you back within an hour after he gets back.

savalisk · Accepted Answer

You can't really make a person miss you. There isn't a special tactic, per se.
Doing the ignore him or don't answer texts for a while is a common tactic I see girls doing but that will make you come across as very annoying.

If he misses you, it'll be because he likes being around you. Who you are as a person will leave an impression on him and keep you in his mind well after you two part. You don't need to be in his face 24/7 because your character will leave a lasting impact.

-and trust, you won't want that image to be of a woman who is lazy in her responsiveness to texts, but also not overly obsessive either. Just be you.

burnbridgesnotspoons · Accepted Answer

Stop playing games. Ignoring his texts won't make him miss you it might make it seem like he isn't on your mind. If you care about him and you think he cares about you then he should message you when he gets home. If he doesn't then message him. If he ignores you then he's either playing games or he doesn't like you or he's busy. If you are unsure of how he truly feels talk to him. Trying to manipulate situations like that just waste time you could both be happy together.

DP0122 · Answer

I see where you are coming from, but he'll already miss you on his own without you trying. I think you should respond back if he texts you, or if you miss him please send him a message!

AmanoYin · Answer

I see... well this is a sure fire way to do so... go find as much garlic as you humanly can... now please listen to me i know this sounds weird but trust me...

eat it all! ALL OF IT then run up to him, tie him to a chair and kiss him for 12 minutes.. he will love it so much his eyes will tear up... 10/10 solid advice works every time.

Anonymous · Answer

I don't think you should ignore his messages or wait to reply. That could make him suspicious if you normally reply quickly. That seems like a very bad idea to do that. In order to make him miss you, you would need to have a very well-established relationship in which you are both very close and miss each other when you're apart.

TheUglyMonk · Answer

Ignoring his text when you want to talk to him or waiting a certain amount of time before answering is useless and gets annoying, he probably already misses you when he is back. If he messages you, that's proof he missed you.

mynameiscee · Answer

I think it's manipulative. If he really likes you, he will naturally miss you.

Malaya · Answer

Keep messaging him see if he ok ask him questions send him a pic of you uh... if you want to

Swiss_Tengu · Answer

Don't do mind games. They are poisonous for relationships.

TheSpartan · Answer

No, you should just be normal. He'll miss being with you in-person already, even if you do text him normally. Don't ignore his messages.

Anonymous · Answer

The more interesting you are, the more people will miss you. How to make him miss you? be interesting... already interesting? then he is already missing you...

anoddtod · Answer

why? probably misses you already. games only makes things worse.. like what if he met somebody on vacation?  oh noses.. what then? :)

Supes · Answer

send him a voice mail, saying semi sexxy sweet nothings that entice him to assume you mean things you may not lol, but only if you have been intimate already

Goofball0 · Answer

Just ignore him and act distant. Or maybe run off and do things.

helterskeltermac · Answer

Don't play games with him...

Anonymous · Answer

Send him erotic pictures of yours. And maybe he will head back.

MayShae · Answer

lol teenagers never cease to amaze me

admles · Answer

Grow up. This sort of stupid, childish game is a way to get him to break up with you.

king34 · Answer

he already will, why would you do this to him?

zagor · Answer

Duck right before pulls the trigger.

amazingpurpleass · Answer

text over what? snapchat? kik?

MusicMayhem · Answer

You should grow up.

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